That has nothing to do with being connected to a car. I'm talking about driving experience, not the normalities of starting a car, or having power windows and locks. Creature comforts are nice to have, but they don't necessarily "make a connection" between car and driver.
As far as automatics and commercial trucks go, I drove for years, and HATED every single automatic transmission that I drove in a big truck. They always shifted wrong, too soon or too late, skipped gears to save fuel at the cost of getting up to speed. It never felt that I was totally in control of the truck. A couple of times it shifted in a spot where it could have potential to cause an accident. Also when on less than perfect conditions a manual allows you more control to get unstuck or keep moving compared to an auto.
As far as revolvers go, most seem to think that semiautos are better for self defense. Revolvers lost much of their commercial influence as police switched over from them to semiautos. I don't think anyone carrying a revolver is undergunned, and as always shot placement is far more critical than caliber. A well placed. 38 special will be far better than an entire magazine of 9mm +P+ that hit non vital areas.