Being retired

I was fortunate and I was able to retire at 55. So far the last 12 years has been FANTASTIC!! I have enough different hobbies, tons of friends and enjoy lots of different things so I have never been bored.

Not only do I loose track of time during the day - I don't give a hoot! lol.
 
It's great to be out of the work force; but along comes the aches, pains ,body falling apart, losing more and more people we know, etc., you know the drill. So "the good comes with the bad". :(

But stop and think, all of that stuff would have happened whether you retired or not. Enjoy your retirement.
 
Interesting to hear others experiences. I am 60 and trying to plan my retirement. It seems to be a balancing act between how long you will be healthy and what your financial needs / wants are.

It is a tough decision on when. We are in decent financial shape, but health care is the challenge. The company did away with structured retirements about 12 or 13 years ago, so I have one but it is small. The company began making contributions to the 401K shifting the risk to the employees. In addition, they killed the retirement healthcare supplement just last year, so to get the same plan I have now for the wife and myself will be the largest expense. We have 0 debt other than what we put on CC's and pay off monthly.

With SSI and Medicare in trouble, I worry about running out of money. But, I am also fed up with work.

Gonna have to figure it out.

Health care (health insurance) is indeed the major obstacle for many of us. I am fortunate to receive most of my care through the VA system at little or not expense. My wife was squeezed out of her position in a down-sizing at age 57, we were able to do a COBRA conversion of her group plan for a year or so at moderately expensive cost, then had to go on the market for an individual plan.

For those who have not had the experience of shopping for health insurance, the monthly premiums are very comparable to house payments, the coverages available are minimal, deductible amounts compare to automobile prices, and co-payments are more than a little bit scary.

We went from $340 per month for her group plan to $850 for an individual policy. Deductible went from $1500 to $7,000, co-pay at 80/20.

Then came the Affordable Care Act (laughing as I write this!). Monthly premium went to $1342, deductible went to $15,000, co-pay at 70/30. No real choice existed, take what they offered whether you like it or not.

All of this was just in time for the cancer diagnosis, hospitalization, and surgery. Show up at the hospital business office with a check for $31,000 to get things moving, then a few months of statements arriving regularly from anyone and everyone involved (surgeons, anesthesiologists, radiologists, consultants, laboratory services, you name it and here they come).

At 65 Medicare becomes the norm. Please don't think that is any kind of panacea! Pick your plan carefully, then shop for the best supplemental policy you can find (and afford). After both we were able to save about $800 per month on the premiums, but the deductibles and co-pays remain a constant reminder every month.

I still have VA care and I am enrolled in Medicare (not much of an option, they take the premiums out of my Social Security checks before I ever see the payments). Fortunately I have not experienced any Medicare claims yet; probably another experience to anticipate.

Dental care, vision care, some other benefits you may have become accustomed to with a group plan under an employer, all will become a thing of the past.

We are fortunate to be debt-free, no house payments, no car payments, no recurring debt. We live pretty well, but the costs for Medicare and supplemental plans are about half of our budget.

The golden key for us has been being debt-free. I cannot imagine how people expect to retire while paying rent or house payments!
 
Being more or less beached/retired at 54 pretty well sucked, but it’s also young enough to start a new career.

I still plan on flight instructing, but with the shortage of ag pilots I’m attending a Part 137 ag pilot school and I’m getting a pre buy done on this as my prospective next “office”.

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Up until my career got blown up 10 years ago, I was angling to be able to retire at 55, if I wanted, everything after that would be gravy. Well, corporate greed got me when my company trashed us long term guys that were doing well, to slim the payroll and get positioned for a sell off. Worked out really well for them, and horribly for me. I got thrown onto the scrap heap too early. It was a rough go for several years, and it’s really set me back financially. I’ve had to reinvent myself and pretty much start all over at the stage of life that I thought I’d be all set. Oh well, life happens, and you put your head down and work...!

I’m in a decent position now, and praying that I can stay viable for another 10 years, put my kids through college and have a decent retirement.

I’ve got plenty of hobbies and interests, and really look forward to the day when I can spend time as I want. Congratulations to all of you that have earned those days!
 
I retired in June of this year. I never expected to be able to retire. Without going into a huge amount of detail a guy I served with submitted a VA disability claim on my behalf. It took two years to get it through the system and when it was done I got enough of settlement to retire.

I'm going to throw this out one time and I'm never going to mention it again but one member here actually expressed disdain because I happened to be a security guard when I retired. I guess he was focused on the fact that I was a security guard while I'm focused on the fact that I was afforded the opportunity to retire.

My last gig before retirement my schedule was such that I never had an actual day off for three years. The first two months I kept thinking I was supposed to be "doing something". It took me some time to decompress. Then I went through a short phase of sitting by the pool sipping "Mai Tais" (Cherry limeades since I don't drink).

I don't get out too much because I'm trying to avoid the worst of the Covid insanity.

Now I go to the Gym a couple of times a week and I go to a VA exercise class once a week. The best part is I can go to the gym in the middle of the night and have it all to myself. There's a shooting range in The San Luis Valley that I go to every month or so. I'm usually the only one there so the range dogs follow me everywhere looking for pets.

This might sound weird but one of my biggest "perks" of retirement hasn't happened yet. I used to tell my wife that I was looking forward to the day that I could wake up to a blizzard and realize I Didn't Have To Go Out In It. I'm waiting.
 
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It's been 12 years ago last May and there has not been one day where I woke up and said "What am I going to do today"? It took about a year for me to actually stop feeling like a bum for getting paid to stay home.
The first thing one should do to help them enjoy their well earned retirement is to start living healthier.
If you have neglected your health like most of us did, go get a good physical exam and a stress test. Get into a regular exercise program and take a class on Nutrition.
Everyone has interests, so what ever yours are, indulge them and meet like minded people. Mental health is key to physical health. Don't waste your time pondering all this Pandemic / Political ****.
Instead, utilize your local library and read to exercise your mind. Also, go find those old S&Ws that people have stashed away. Good luck on a long and healthy retirement.
 
With SSI and Medicare in trouble, I worry about running out of money. But, I am also fed up with work.

Gonna have to figure it out.

I've got it figured out and I decided when I retired over 19 yrs. ago that I would never again work for money. I worked from 16 to 60 and that is long enough. I know that if I live long enough I will run out of money (but it won't be next week) and then I'm going on welfare. Larry
 
For me, retirement came down to a simplified concept: what is more valuable; time or money. In answering this question, as a young man, it was all about income generation. Time, we had plenty of. Money, not so much. But, somewhere along the line, my priorities changed. Time became my focus. It became the most desirable commodity, because, for one thing, the amount you get is finite, and secondly, the amount you get is unknowable.
“Therefore watch, for you know not the day, nor the hour”.
Spend your time wisely.
It’s later than you think…
 
Being more or less beached/retired at 54 pretty well sucked, but it’s also young enough to start a new career.

I still plan on flight instructing, but with the shortage of ag pilots I’m attending a Part 137 ag pilot school and I’m getting a pre buy done on this as my prospective next “office”.

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Worked for Piper many, many moons ago. S-I-L and Grandson both work there now.
 
I retired November 13, 2020 after 42 years and had a part time job lined up. My wife suggested that I take six months off and if I still wanted to work after that then go to work.

I am glad that I took her advice! I thought that I would miss working but I don’t. I love being retired. it’s not unusual for me to have to check to see what day of the week it is. I’ve done a few projects around the house and am in the process of turning our old 2 car detached Model A sized garage into a workshop/woodshop.

I am also fortunate that I had a great job with an very good retirement.
 
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Reading that you are in the Western US , have you fished in Florida, specifically the Keys?

it is incredible.....
Islamorda is my favorite.

Spring 2021 at Lake Chickamauga, TN.
2020 at Tampa Bay, FL
2019 at Lake Mcconahey, NE
2018 at Willow Lake, MN
2017 at Rockport/Port Aransas, TX

So, a variety of saltwater and fresh water, everything from redfish and drum to catfish and bass, some northern pike and crappie mixed in, occasional shark.

It's all good. We have rented a houseboat, we have rented a house on a lake with dock & boat ramp, we have rented cabins. I like to have places where we can relax, cook, play cards, maybe enjoy a few adult beverages. I don't mind hiring a charter boat and captain who knows the areas.

The last two trips were during Covid restrictions, which can make travelling difficult. If it weren't for that I might consider a trip to Los Cabos, Baja California Sur (good friend has a condo there and the sport fishing is world class). I can also enjoy the fishing lodges with rooms, dining room, local guides, etc.

I'm retired but both sons own businesses, so arranging the schedules requires planning several months ahead.
 
Reading that you are in the Western US , have you fished in Florida, specifically the Keys?

it is incredible.....
Islamorda is my favorite.

Fishing was really good here 50 -60 years ago. Heard the same thing from my Father, Grandfather and Great-Grandfather. Over fishing, population, and chemical run offs are the causes. Oh well, I guess that is progress.
 
I can also enjoy the fishing lodges with rooms, dining room, local guides, etc.

I'm retired but both sons own businesses, so arranging the schedules requires planning several months ahead.

I had Kaiser ins when I lived in CO. Look at it. Then look at Elk Island Lodge at Gods Lake, Man. Canada. Great fishing
 
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