The Cult Favority of many years is the 125 Nyclad, but the availability is spotty at best. Search out a box , and use sparingly for actual carry.
I haven't used any yet , the above mentioned Win " Defend " seems very promising in gel testing I've read, and probably as good as any of the other commonly available non +P jhps .
Old School aproach #1 - aka my feelings. 5 rds of +P 158 LHP to test POI , and 5rd for actual carry.( Or 135 Gold Dot if inclined).
Old School aproach #2 - a signifigent double digit percentage of old timers discount the idea of anything expanding from a 2in , and , and use a 158 std vel swc , and rely on control and penetration. Similar school of thought as carrying fmj in a .380 . I don't totally buy into this , but, I won't expend much effort to debate any out of it.
The rest of the question is , are you seeking std pressure only to be kind to the gun , or is it deliberate to moderate the recoil in a light gun for better control ? If the later , somthing like the Buffalo Bore might be std pressure per se , but will have recoil similar to the conventional +P versions.