Class Reunions-Revised

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There have been several threads about them. Some hate them and some love them. This one is while typing my thread about my eye scare I glanced over and saw my 50th Reunion cup that now holds pencils and pens. That was the first one that I attended. I regret not attending the earlier ones. Most of the people I liked, a few were jerks in school and they never changed. I made everyone after that until the last one when I was sick.

The girl that became my wife lived in a different town and we romanced long distance, seeing each other probably every three weeks. I needed a date for our Sr. night blow-out so I had her permission to get one.. I don't remember telling her that my date wasn't pretty but I guess I did. Anyhow, at the 50th reunion this pretty lady came up and planted one on me. She turned to my wife and said he took me to our Sr. Banquet. I introduced her to my wife and after she left, my wife said you told me she wasn't pretty. I remember saying well she wasn't then and my wife said Liar and gigged me several times later.

Out of about eighty I am the only man left and there may still be one woman, I am not sure. I graduated eighty one years ago.

I am sure that there are very few small towns that covet their schools and graduates as Perry OK. It has two Alumni organizations. They have purchased a building on the town square that houses much of the school history. There are yearbooks, pictures of ever activity from the debate team to the athletic teams. There are pictures of nearly every graduating class. It is a world of school history. It is staffed by volunteers.

Every male in my class and two females served in WW11 along with many others who were attached to the 45th. My best friend who was a grade behind me also enlisted at the age of seventeen. He died on Christmas Day, his birthday, when his troopship was torpedoed crossing the Channel.

I just attended there my Jr. and Sr. year but I cherish that time in my life. We had a few of the stuck ups but most were good people. Most of us worked after school and weekends but on our free time we hunted and fished. Three of us hunted together and no one thought anything about us carrying guns through the town square on our way to a farm we hunted on. I remember what we had. I had a Stevens bolt action 20ga., one had his older brothers Sweet Sixteen and the other an old twist steel English double that had been shot so much the end of the barrel had flaked off and the forearm would sometimes come off when shot. It was a hammer gun and if he had both hammers back it had been known to fire both barrels. God was looking over us.

I regret not going to all the reunions because I would have seen some people change. By the time I started going some of the stuck ups were just plain nice people, the real stuck ups were no longer attending. I enjoyed my time at school and the reunions. It was good.

I gave been blessed. My future wife and I fell in in love when I was fifteen and she was sixteen and we never fell out of love. My daughter watches out for Dad and never fails to tell me she loves me. I have a grandson and great grandson who love me so things are good. I would like to make a hundred but if I don't it has been a good run.
 
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My graduating class was about 650 kids - and I didn't attend the ceremony. Therefore it should be obvious I'm not big on reunions. I got drug to a few because my wife wanted to attend but I didn't enjoy them at all. There were the "I'm rich and successful you're not" snobs and in one instance a woman claiming to be something I personally knew she was not (though I let her live her fantasy other than to tel my wife later). And at both reunions, the people I would have liked to have seen weren't there because they had died (one by suicide, one in car accident and one in Vietnam) within a few years of graduating.
 
I graduated eighty one years ago.

And I see you're a US veteran. Thanks for your service, did you serve under Grant, or Lee?:D:D:D

Last reunion I went to was my 25th, and this year is supposed to be my 50th, but I have heard no mention of having a 50th HS reunion. There was a pretty high attrition rate by the 25th, so I have no idea how many are left out of the 230 from my class. I only keep up with maybe 5 guys I graduated with, and we lost one of them a year ago. It really brings into stark relief how many sunrises you may have left, when so many of your contemporaries are gone.
 
Graduates on Classmates.com put together a bunch of folks from hubby's HS about 20 years ago, in an informal "All Classes" reunion at a NY state park picnic area.
Every year of graduates was notified, no cost to attend, and extended families were welcome. Graduation year signs were put on the picnic tables so individual classes could meet.
It was a hoot meeting in such a relaxed low-key environment, with people's kid's and grandkids joining the gathering.

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Class of 1974

There were 155 attending school my senior year, many of them high or drunk most of the time. 127 of us graduated! Over half of us are dead and we're losing more every week.

I didn't attend any of the Official Class reunions started a year 5. I didn't get invited. At year 10, I got an invitation post marked a week after the event. At year 15, I got and invite early, along with a list of 40 names of people they could not locate. Of that 40, 27 of their parents/families lived at the same address they graduated from. (I ran copies of the invitation, and after Church one Sunday, I drove around the old neighborhoods and gave them to the families.) At the 20th it was about $150 for an evening of drinking. Then they stopped having them, the Class President moved away. and people came out of the wood work saying they never got an invite and so on.

At our 40th year, The Unofficial Class Reunions started and I went. The first thing that struck me was the cost, $10 Cover and pay as you go. They still couldn't find anyone that wasn't a High School friend, but at least the in-crowd wasn't in charge and lots of people got invited by word of mouth! About 50% of the survivors came, and 45years about 75% of the survivors came!

Tom S. mentioned a "Pretender", At the 40th reunion, two women showed and both had PhD's in Psychology. In HS, these girls couldn't walk and chew gum at the same time. (so a few of us looked them up on-line and there are Pshrinks by those names in Central Ohio!, The classmates are white and one the real Pshrinks is black, the other Asian!)

It will be about 3 years until my 50th reunion, I really am looking forward to it.

Ivan

PS My brother is in the Class of 69, and his story is almost identical. However the Unofficial Reunions started at only 20 years and his friends all married local, so more spouses attend. When preparing for his 35th, His wife ask for money for a fancy hair salon. He ask "Why?", She told him: "You will see many bald or grey men there, but there will be NO grey haired women! in attendance"
 
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The last class reunion my class had was our 20year. There are about 10 that have died over the years that I know of. Since it was a small class of 130,most of us moved to other areas or out of state. Our 50 th will be in 2026 and I do not see us getting together then either.
 
Went to my 50th last August and we go to my wife's 50th this weekend. We both graduated same high school so we know people in both classes. Same High School with 160 in my class. We have had 35 pass over the years. It was a great time, as another said everyone was mellow but we missed those who had passed.

Even a couple of our teachers attended. I was able to speak with my Spanish teacher (not in Spanish). I was horrible in foreign language but somehow got through 3 years of it.
 
My school days don't generate any warm fuzzies. Despite that, got sweet-talked into attending the 50th reunion. Re-connected with a few people from back when, but for the most part, it was pretty much what I expected. A reminder why I'd never been before and won't ever go again.
 
Only one I went to was my 5 year. Some of the ugly ducklings had blossomed into swans. Most of the "too much testosterone" types still had the problem. Not a lot had changed. Since our graduating class had 781 people I did not know many of the people there. Decided not to worry about until much later. Last year would have been our 40th Reunion but Covid took care of that. Maybe I will go to the 50th if I get a notification.
 
Never went to one and never will. High school didn't give me the "warm fuzzies" (as Donn said). I've seen three people I went to school with and it did nothing for me. I wish them well but life has moved on.

I worked my butt off in high school so I could get into my preferred University. Never really had a good time. Sure, I had "friends", but only kept in touch with one.

Not really my time of good memories. My friend DID go to the 50th, and he said he recognized only a few, and all were fat and bald.

They had a 51st, and fewer came. The 52nd wasn't held - the organizer and class president passed away.
 
Graduated in 1960, 10 kids in our class, only 6 of us left. Haven't seen any of them since the day I graduated.
 
Attended my 50th-my first-5 years ago. Mostly to show my face. A class of about 400, the In Memoriam Book contained about 20%, several people I'd have liked to have seen again were in it-and 2 names of people who disliked me.. One girl I remember as a real cupcake-the years had not been kind to her. Had a good conversation with a girl I was not close to then-she was also a JHS classmate-but she recognized me right away, other people I was not close to
then remembered me.
 
only went to my 10 year reunion .will never go to another one ,the stuck up crowd ,still was ,after working in factories ,for 40 years .the bullies at the plants were the same bullies in high school,and grade school ,people dont really ever change ,if you put them in the same situation
 
A while back we had a multi year reunion for the small now defunct school that I attended.
What amazed me was folks came from Wash DC, Houston, Memphis, Jackson, MS and yes - Albuquerque.
But some folks who live a couple of miles away didn’t come.
In some cases the far away folks were siblings and staying with the local non attendees.
 
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