Sitting here at the computer in the den there is a loaded Model 19 with a speed loader sitting about 2 feet away on top of the CRT.
There is a loaded 1911, cocked and locked with the safety on and a spare mag in the living room, on top of the entertainment center, about 6 feet from my easy chair.
There is another cocked and locked 1911 with the safety on and a spar mag in the night stand on my side of the bed.
I live just about as rural as anbody in the lower 48 and crime simply isn't an issue, or at least one would think so. Then a BG showed up and tried to cancel my ticket. That was two, almost 3 years ago.
Now the gate is locked up at the main dirt road/only road in here and that's 8 miles away. If you want to hike in or cut the fene etc I guess you could. If there is anybody home and there are 9 people here at the headquarters, then there are dogs that love to bark, around all the time. We have a much lower threat response than before.
We are much more cognisant of any possible threat than we were and yes, we had gotten fat, lazy and careless in the 10 years or since I'd retired.
It won't happen again.
When I was a active LEO and had growing kids in the home there were loaded guns in the house. Mostly up high and out of sight but there. My kids were well trained and very very aware that all guns were loaded. In fact they knew "All guns are always loaded, anywhere."
When my son was 7 and my daughter was 5 they wanted to ride down to the 7-11 about a half mile away from where we lived at the time. They came home without the candy and informed me they had found a "Deputies Gun". We got in the truck and went towards the store where my son showed me the loaded Glock in the holster with sure enough a Deputy Sheriff's badge pinned on the holster. The only thing my son had done was cover it with leaves "SO other kids didn't find it till I could tell you" and hurried home to tell dad.
Turns out the guy was UC and had put the gun on the roof of his car while he was putting stuff in it and then driven off with the pistol on the roof.
If my kids had company then everything went into the safe till they left.
As stated by others, an unloaded gun really doesn't serve much of a purpose when the chips are down and the ball is rolling.
Funny, I never had a problem off duty or at home as a LEO in some of the countries most urban areas. But after I retired to the middle of nowhere somebody tries to shoot me. I know that the only reason he didn't just shoot me at the time was I was packing open carry when I rolled back to the house. It wasn't till he was leaving that he tried it.
Sorry, but I just don't think when the stuff hits the fan the BG is going to give you the luxury of getting your one and only defense gun and then going to wherever you store the ammo and loading it and then.........way too much time.
Children can be taught proper gun safety. I do have to admit the my revolvers and pistols REALLY look like guns and not toys. The other day I was in town and saw the new Ruger 380 for the first time and it did frighten me because I can invision kids getting dead with them BECAUSE they truly look like toy guns. I would never own one for that reason alone. Our 7 year old grandson lives with us most of the time and he knows about guns and is well trained and I have the utmost faith and confidence in him but I also believe that some guns are just too damned tempting/attractive to small kids.
RWT