I lived there all my life up until 4 years ago when we moved South. I don't have many regrets over my lifetime however one I do is that we did not move out sooner! I have not felt comfortable living there in 40 years but I owned my own businesses and was not in the position to move then. I retired at 55 (17 years ago) and should have busted out way sooner - it took me many years to convince my wife! Finally she agreed to get out and I now realize I should have pushed harder earlier on. What a different world it is down here!
Well, after living in NY for 68 years and now living in FL for 4 years I can tell you there is such a drastic difference even I had a hard time believing it for quite a while. Not just the gun laws (which are polar opposite), just life in general, people, attitudes and beliefs. NY is a "Nanny State", FL will let people make many of their own lifestyle decisions - I guess you could call it common sense decisions. After moving here and meeting many many people and neighbors from around the Country I have found out NY is not unique. We have many here from MN, WI, PA, IL, and even some from VA, CT and MA. They are just like NY we have come to realize - restrictive, Nanny States. We are happy to be here and no looking back! The only thing I miss about NY is sitting around my fire place in the crisp Fall, Pheasant hunting, snow around Christmas time and of course some of my favorite restaurants - but I am getting over that the longer we live here. Our Winters here are magnificent in their own right and I must say I don't miss my snow thrower - lol! Although it's harder to find really high quality restaurants here, we have been fairly successful.
I could sit here and tell you about some of the stupid, ridiculous laws, rules and regulations in NY but half here would simply not believe them! I wouldn't have either had I not lived there most of my life! Stupid has now caught up with NY and many have now seen the light!