Of course the guy had the right to be there at 3:00 AM.
He also had the right to ask for a cigarette.
Are you so naive that you do not know that the successful con man or street robber always starts off his initial contact with something that is totally legal and innocent in appearance?
The guy who is waving a 3 ft. long sword advancing on you from 100 ft. away does not get very far.
Survivors are those that are able to see early in the contact that all is not what it appears to be.
Now back to the case in hand. The suspected BG had the right to be in the parking lot.
OK.
The suspected BG had the right to ask for a cigarette.
OK.
Now tell me something.
If you needed a smoke, would you go to a hospital parking lot on a cold winter night, at 3:00 AM just hoping someone who smokes and has a pack on him will show up before you freeze your *** off?
How many non-smokers, since smoking has become the thing not to do, would you have to process before you hit the right combination of a smoker with some on him?
Falling for that line is as dumb as falling for the "My car broke down, can I use your phone" knock on your front door.
When almost every kid in grade school has a cell, the welfare people hand out free phones, etc., no one needs to knock on your door on a dark night asking to use your phone.
Yet there are people, and I suspect you are one, that will invite them in to use your phone.
Asking for a cig at 3:00 AM in an isolated area is the same thing.
I have a good story that happened on a very dark night almost 40 years ago in which I dragged a guy about half a mile with his arm clamped in my truck window, and it all started with a conversation that he had the right to initiate in a place he had a right to be.
Had I not caught on to the fact that there was another guy standing at the rear of my truck, I might not be here today.
A good story and one day I will take the time to write it down.