I don't Always Park in the HP spots
But when i NEED to, i'm Glad i have my Placard
My wife and I both have placards. Mine due to my knees and ankles, hers due to a diabetic degenerative bone syndrome, Charkot Foot. She has to wear a CRO boot all the time and has leg strength issues. She always needs her placard. I try not to use mine, but there are days I really need it when the arthritis and scar tissue in my right knee act up.
We both take abuse from ignorant "casual observers" when we use our parking placards because we are both FAT. Our weight has nothing to due with my falling and breaking my knee (tibial plateu) or my wife's degenerative bone condition. I still work every day, my wife had to take an early retirement because she could no longer stand for 8-12 hours at a time on concrete floors to do her job as a Nurses Aid.
The "Placard Nazi" ignoramuses, usually around 55 to 70 years of age, yell things like"You don't need that Handicapped space, you need exercise", "What's your handicap-LAZINESS!", or just this Monday, "Hey lady, you don't need that cane-park farther away and walk, you need to lose some weight!" My wife replied "I don't need the cane!-You try walking in the (expletive) boot all day, every day!". The guy went Hrumpf! and drove away. He is lucky I wasn't the one he said that to.
If you are fat and park in a handicap space at Walmart, everybody, and I do mean everybody, assumes you are on welfare! I get looks of amazement when I get out of my vehicle wearing dress slacks & shirt with a tie. Then limp on into the store with my "Walter Brennan" gate. The last person who yelled at me when I used my placard at Walmart was a thirty-something mother with two kids in her minivan. She stopped right behind me as I got out of my vehicle and said "You fatties shouldn't be allowed to park in those spaces, you should lose some weight." My quick reply "Why don't you mind your own business-YOU WILL LIVE LONGER!" she took off, quickly.