I forget that not everyone is using their weapons for the same things as me. I'm a hunter and everything that I do for, or with my weapons is geared to that end. That being said, for me, with varmit rifles (of which IMO the .223 is king), it's not about the recoil, but what the rifle does when it recoils. If it goes straight back, I can stay on target and see my shots hit (or where they hit), but if the muzzle jumps skyward, forget about it. This may not make a difference if your shooting man size targets at 50-100yds, but shooting little vermin (2" wide and 10" tall) at 300-500 yds with a high power scope in windy conditions...trust me, it really helps to see where the rounds hit so corrections can be made, if necessary (and they usually are), not to mention the cool factor of seeing a prarie dog vaporized into a fine pink mist! The set-up I'm using has helped me to do this, but it still needs some tweaking.
People on this forum use their weapons for different purposes, so we get to hear different experiences as well as different opinions, and that's what's so awesome about this forum as opposed to those that ONLY talk tactical or hunting.