Sir, please allow me to toss in my 2 cents.
I have been fortunate that my accident in '07 didn't include either hip, but my quality of life was awful. From May of '07 until this past September, I never had a moment that was pain free. In September I had my 24th accident related surgery, which was my 2d knee reconstruction. I had the ACL, PCL, and LCL replaced ... it was an eleven hour procedure. I was on crutches and unable to drive for 8 weeks.
For the first month, I was mobility impaired. It was very difficult to attend to myself, and caring for my children was an impossibility. However, the inconvenience was worth it. This Thursday will mark 17 painless weeks. You do need to get this done ASAP.
Have you considered having a family member stay with you and your wife, or hiring a live in aide for the recuperation period? You can't push yourself excessively.
I have been fortunate that my accident in '07 didn't include either hip, but my quality of life was awful. From May of '07 until this past September, I never had a moment that was pain free. In September I had my 24th accident related surgery, which was my 2d knee reconstruction. I had the ACL, PCL, and LCL replaced ... it was an eleven hour procedure. I was on crutches and unable to drive for 8 weeks.
For the first month, I was mobility impaired. It was very difficult to attend to myself, and caring for my children was an impossibility. However, the inconvenience was worth it. This Thursday will mark 17 painless weeks. You do need to get this done ASAP.
Have you considered having a family member stay with you and your wife, or hiring a live in aide for the recuperation period? You can't push yourself excessively.