The biggest thing about recoil is muzzle rise.,,
I got rid of the target grips on all my S&Ws way back.
I use the magna grips on everything from the 22k frame up through the n-frame magnums.
I choke up as high as I can with my grip and the recoil has more of a rearward push instead of the muzzle rise of a gun sitting higher in the hand.
The reason I went to the magna grips was to be able to get back on target faster after the first shot,,,
So before quiting the full power loads altogether,, try a set of magnas.
I got rid of the target grips on all my S&Ws way back.
I use the magna grips on everything from the 22k frame up through the n-frame magnums.
I choke up as high as I can with my grip and the recoil has more of a rearward push instead of the muzzle rise of a gun sitting higher in the hand.
The reason I went to the magna grips was to be able to get back on target faster after the first shot,,,
So before quiting the full power loads altogether,, try a set of magnas.