John, I wish I could offer more direct help, but I've only had my model 639 apart to clean it when I first got it and to replace the single side safety with an ambidextrous replacement. I do recall what you are experiencing, and remember that the slide doesn't slip into place as easily as say a 1911 or Sig/HK. Maybe this video will help. You can fast forward to around the 5 minute mark or watch the whole thing (not very long).
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