I like the way you think!
Coincidentally, my nightstand guns are a Mossberg 930 SPX riot gun loaded with 8 rounds of Federal LE reduced recoil 00 buck, a Beretta Px4 Storm .40 S&W loaded with 18 rounds of Federal LE tactical bonded 165gr HPs, and my PC 627 UDR stoked with 8 rounds of Winchester PDX1 .357 Magnum 125gr BJHPs.
Better yet would to buy her a cheap Mossberg 500 in 20 gauge. They are bulletproof, have very little recoil and will beat ANY handgun for self protection.
In a close quarters fight, gun retention is a HUGE issue. A woman (and many men for that matter) will have a much better chance of retaining and/or using a handgun than a long arm inside a small room.
For perimeter defense, at night, with moving targets, NOTHING beats a good shotgun. Well... maybe a Claymore...![]()
There is no such thing as being over prepared.Despite all of the opinions, I have not seen any real data indicating how many rounds were needed to stop the average or typical home invasion scenario, nor what caliber or type gun works the best. Personally I feel pretty comfortable with my K-frame Model 19 loaded with 38+p ammo. I shoot this 4 inch barrel gun a lot better than my 2-inch barrel j frame, and with the added aid of the CT laser grips I am pretty confident about being effective with the 6-rounds in the gun. The likelihood is that I will go my entire life and never need to use this gun, so trying to prepare for doomsday situations, such as a home invasion by 8 armed intruders, or something similar, does not seem reasonable. Be prepared, but not paranoid.
Remember the old rule about snubbies: alloy frames are for carrying but steel frames are for actually shooting. Still true today!