J frames are like gloves or shoes, they work better in pairs. Do a google search for "Melinda Herman Georgia housewife shoots attacker five times", she was the mother whose home was invaded in Georgia some months back and she and her two kids were attacked. She fled to a closet if I recall, and shot the attacker SIX TIMES, FIVE shots of .38 Special hitting him in the face and body.
The attacker walked away, got into his car, then drove away, finally crashing some blocks away. Will you entrust your life to a 5 shot J frame loaded with .38 Special? She did, luckily, it stopped the attack, but that bad guy had enough "fight" left in him to walk away and then drive away, had he chosen to take her with him, she and her kids would not have been so lucky. And what if he had a knife or gun? .38 is nothing to sneeze at, but history is loaded with bad guys who did just that, sneezed at the .38's entering their bodies and just laughed it off as they killed their victims. The Florida FBI tragedy of the 1980's was a sad example of that.
I have TWO J frames in my pockets at this time, loaded with .357 and yes, I know I may lose hearing if I ever fire .357 indoors, but one J frame is loaded with Golden Saber .357 which is supposed to be a .357 "Medium" and spare our ears.
Last year the guys living in the apartment within spitting distance of my apartment experienced a home invasion and we'd had plenty of home invasions in my area. The attackers are brazen, kicking in doors, day or night.
Nope, nothing weird about walking around your home with a J frame or any gun in your pocket. Not when I consider that not only was there a home invasion, which happened right under my nose by the way (my door was open and they walked right past me but I was not facing the door), there was also a shooting with a few guys shot on my block, also within the year.
Don't feel weird keeping a J frame in your pocket, like I said, keep two, one in each pocket!
I forgot to add, pocket guns work best with bobbed hammers, I've done this experiment many times, and when hammers snag, oh boy do they snag, I've fumbled terribly, my "hammerless" snubs are preferred any day. Those night sights? They cause a "hiccup" when I draw fast, not what I'd call a snag, but they do catch the lip of the pocket sometimes, but nothing serious, though I should practice much more to ensure they don't snag at all.