Totally aside from the advisability of modifying a revolver as mentioned safety isn't the consideration! The idea that S&W used different material or heat-treating on the different K-Frame revolvers depending on caliber is one of those things that "sounds right so it must be" simply isn't so!
I was my department's armorer when I was sent to the S&W Armorer's School in 1974. Since in addition to being a police armorer I am also a school-trained practical gunsmith that has practiced on and off since graduation in 1964. Since firearms have been both my vocation and avocation for many years I have an innate curiousity about such things as this question.
My first day at S&W I directly asked the question, "Is there any difference in specifications for either materials or heat-treating for the various models built on the K Frame?" (Admittedly the result of my recollection after 41 years, but accurate in content!). The answer I received to this question was an unequivocable NO. All S&W K-Frame revolvers, at least those being produced at that time are made of the same material and using the same heat-treating process! There is absolutely no logical reason that this should have changed from that date forward to today.
What is the reason for this? Read scooter 123's explanation! Can you imagine the nightmare in keeping batches of otherwise identical frames separated based on these factors? Can you imagine the liability exposure if a "weak" frame was used in a high pressure Model 19?
The other side of the coin is the claims that the Model 19 frame was strengthened by a dimensional change. The difference is a slight change in the profile of the front of the frame for cosmetic reasons! The change was to accommodate the extractor shroud, just as in the N-Frame. I have compared 4 of my K-Frame revolvers in this area. These were a ca. 1917 M&P, ca. 1948 M&P, a 14-2 Dayton and 19-2. In all dimensions of the front member of the frame they all measure within .010" in both front-to-rear and thickness. Hardly enough to have resulted in a significant improvement in strength. All of the strength in a revolver which is critical to safety is vested in the CYLINDER, not the frame. If the cylinder doesn't fail the worst that can happen to the frame is somewhat accelerated wear! Think about it. Have any of you ever seen, or even heard of a frame failure which did not occur as a direct result of a catastrophic failure of the cylinder???? The answer is NO!
PLEASE UNDERSTAND that I am not trying to encourage the OP, just point out that there is no direct safety concern based on the original model gun. Being a -3 there should be no issue whatever. Consider BC38's observation, there is no other logical answer to his question than the only change made to the frame was to over-stamp the -5 with a 6!