cain73:
What's not to like?

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I've got an M&P9C here, as well as full size and compact 40's....
It is a little chubby v.s. something like the PPS series, but it's not too bad. (I ditched my PPS40 - my chubby fingers wrapped around the trigger - very painful to shoot. Not so with the M&P's.)
For pure Self Defense, you should be fine - they are comfortable enough to shoot that you probably won't be tempted to leave the thing in the nightstand or safe, and accurate enough to keep you happy in casual paper punching. (An SD gun should put six rounds into about a six inch circle at 30'. Anything better is just nice....)
You probably should read up on the Apex sear kits - the "DCAEK" kit is the most common, but you can live without it. In my case, it turned my M&P's into a trigger feel not too far off my two circa 1968 S&W wheelguns. At the time, they were about the best "off the shelf" triggers around. However, just shooting the thing will
almost get you there.
(I'll get more insistent if Randy offers to pay me

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Search on the DCAEK kits here, and the "dead trigger" issue, before making any decisions on that.
Out of the box, my first M&P40FS had it's sights improperly installed. Normally, you're supposed to presume that the factory knew what they were doing, but it was clear that the front sight was way off, and the rear sight equally skewed to more or less mask that. I couldn't resist....
The other two came with their sights in the right places

- no problem....
(I should mention that those circa 1968 revolvers were purchased for carry as a rent-a-cop. I'm semi-retired at that, and have been in computers for about the same 40+ years, but while I don't claim to be an expert, I'm not dead yet.... 'Course, if the wife finds out I've got three M&P's....

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I've shot a few Glocks.... I don't care for them, but the triggers are alright if you can stand 'em. The M&P design is not quite the same - the Glock moves the striker back a smidge before releasing, while the M&P just releases the strker - IMHO, a better way to do it. The best thing you can do is to just try both and see what you like. (Note that a new M&P will have to shoot in at least a few hundred rounds - dry firing is OK - before it meets it's potential, if you don't go with the Apex mods. A well-used range gun is probably a better test gun if you can't borrow one from somebody.)
(I wonder if the wife would let you fly me to Tampa?

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I've had the M&P's for a while - about two years for the 40FS, about a year for the 40C, and maybe six months for the 9C. I did have the dead trigger on the 40C, but Apex fixed it for me at a reasonable cost, and it's been fine since.
It might be cheaper to buy one of each rather than flying me down, but don't tell my wife I suggested that

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Regards,