Susie:
I gave you a like on your last post because of your obvious caring attitude towards drifter. But I think you are coming down a little hard on the folks who are trying to help the feral cats...folks like Jennifer, who has worked with feral cats for years. Let me defend these folks without any disrespect to you. You know how much I admire you for building a relationship with your kitty.
Out where you live, it appears that there are very few cats. But if you could see some of these colonies of feral cats, dozens, maybe hundreds of them breeding and adding to the number in the colony if they are not fixed, it is heartbreaking. There is never enough food for all of them. Many will suffer and die of starvation, or disease because no one cares or has the resources to take care of them. Animal shelters can only deal with a relatively small number.
Spaying and neutering are a way to try to stop the uncontrolled breeding. These folks who do this work are not uncaring, cruel individuals, they are mostly people who love cats, and are trying to improve the lives of cats who would otherwise die very unpleasant, early deaths, and spread dangerous diseases to other cats.
Sorry if I seem sanctimonious, but working in law enforcement, I was in all sorts of environments, and I am also a cat lover, and it is truly heartbreaking to see some of the conditions that these animals have to endure.
Best Regards, Les