Hey guys and gals, after years of working at it, my wife is finally going to get her first gun. When we met, she had never shot a gun and had no desire to. Long story short, I got her to shooting .22 rifles, then .22 handguns, and she likes it, especially rifles. She has also shot several of my K-frame 38's, but doesn't care for the recoil. So, the other night, she finally said that she would like to get her CCW. So here is the situation. She wants a gun that she can carry concealed, most likely in a purse, but I don't really know what to get her. She has shot my M19, and M10 snubby, but when she tried my 442...she did not like it at all. She said that there was just too much recoil. She wants to be able to shoot it some with me, just plinking around, but it needs to be a gun she can carry CCW in her purse. And....well....she likes the pink thing too. Naturally, I want her to get a Smith, but I may not be able to find one that will satisfy all her needs. And I will not buy her a gun with a lock on it either, not if I can help it. I don't think she cares whether it is an auto or revolver, but I like revolvers better. So I would appreciate your thoughts on the matter. Thanks a lot everyone!