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This is hard for me to write. Today my Uncle Richard, after a hard bout with dementia, passed away at the age of 74. He and my aunt had just made it to 50 years married. My aunt had to have him in a home because it was just impossible for her to adequately take care of him. He was my dad's youngest brother, and even though he was a generation up from me, my uncle was only 7 years older than me, and I felt that we kind of grew up together. When I was growing up I didn't know anybody else who had an uncle who was practically their age, and when I was handed down one of his shirts I just thought that was the coolest thing. We had many years of fishing and hunting together, both up in Canada and on his farm. So if it looks like I am absent for a little bit, it will be because we are gathering together to remember his life.
 
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My father died of Alzheimer's at 82. He had it for seven years. The last four years he did not know who I was. He always knew my mother. Although he didn't know me, I knew him and that was enough. I miss him very much. I am also happy that filthy disease no longer has him in its grip. As a Christian, I believe he is in a much better place. His leaving made this a less better place. Prayers for you and your family.
 
Gold dollar my prayers for you and your family are up and away.I have lost the whole generation of uncles and aunts plus my dad that preceded me .We have just had our first frost and it put me in mind of rabbit hunting as a kid with my grandad ,uncles and dad . RIP to all good men who helped shape a kids life .Maybe gone but not forgotten.
 
You have our prayers and support, Gold Dollar, at this time of sadness and remembrance. Your uncle sounds like a wonderful guy, and I'm sure you already appreciate that you walked this life together. Comfort and strength to you and yours, and the blessings of His healing to all.
 
I'm sorry for you loss my prayers are sent for you and your dad. He is now at peace I know what it's like dealing with dementia as both my parents had it till they passed.
 
I give you my sympathy. For 4 years before dad passed he didn't know me. When he was diagnosed the nurse asked him who those two men were. He said "the one on the left is my oldest son, G." She asked about me and he said "Oh, that's his brother".
On another occasion we had visited for twenty minutes when he looked at me and said "you're the one from Montana, aren't you".
Here is hoping you cherish the good times.
 
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