No, keep quiet. And be very surprised when it is announced.
terry
terry
Quick question please, Yes or No response
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Seamus O'Caiside
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No, no, a thousand times "NO!"
Bozz10mm
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No. Everything's going smooth, why start a possible family feud.
With the little schooling that I got........................
19 is a little past 18 years of age in my mathametical workings that I grew up with.............
that makes it LEGAL in most states.
Hush............
19 is a little past 18 years of age in my mathametical workings that I grew up with.............
that makes it LEGAL in most states.
Hush............
I have to agree with the majority of the members here, do your best Sgt Schultz imitation, and let the youngsters break it to their parents in their own way.
I bet it will be with a little bundle of joy in about 6 months.
In a word as you had requested: "No"
"En boca cerrada no caen moscas"
Flies don't fall in a closed mouth!
Flies don't fall in a closed mouth!
No....
One of my older sisters got married when she was 17 and didn't tell my parents till several months later. No, she wasn't pregnant. They were married for 70 years, he passed away last year.
One of my older sisters got married when she was 17 and didn't tell my parents till several months later. No, she wasn't pregnant. They were married for 70 years, he passed away last year.
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ColbyBruce
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Not the issue here.
I was asked by the young man if he could confide in me; but figuring what the topic might be, I suggested he confide in the young ladles maternal grandpa. Grandpa raised both of their mothers, and lives nearby.
Thank you all.
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Absalom
SWCA Member, Absent Comrade
Apart from the "minding your own business" angle:
I'm noticing your wording: You think, or you know?
If you just think, that doubles the NO WAY.
That could turn out as bad as those "I think your wife is having an affair" scenarios where it turns out she doesn't ...
PS: Just saw what you wrote as I was writing. Good move.
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If you're invited to the wedding, the perfect time to make your objection known is when the person officiating states: "If anyone objects to the marriage of this couple, speak now or forever hold your peace." Do it! I dare ya 
DeathGrip
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I suggest staying out of their business just like I shoulda stayed out of this thread.
I can't change anything from here and probably would make thing worse if I was there.
I can't change anything from here and probably would make thing worse if I was there.
Absalom
SWCA Member, Absent Comrade
If you're invited to the wedding, the perfect time to make your objection known is when the person officiating states: "If anyone objects to the marriage of this couple, speak now or forever hold your peace." Do it! I dare ya
The OP can correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't get the impression that this is about objecting to the marriage per se.
The issue seems to be the wisdom or ethics of keeping something from very dear friends which the OP may feel they should know about.
DeathGrip
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"If you thought"
That's huge.
That's huge.
LVSteve
Member
Not your monkeys, not your circus.
No. You don't want to be the one in the middle of that situation.
Am I reading into your comment that they might be related?
Family skeletons in the closet?
