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ColbyBruce
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No relation. A hardship case, basically.
Quick question please, Yes or No response
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No relation. A hardship case, basically.
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ColbyBruce
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Exactly. I referred the confidentialities to a family elder.
I have read that domestic disputes are one of the most dangerous things that LEOs get involved in. If it's not harming me or what's mine there's no way I'm going to get involved in other peoples family. They reared their children so let them deal with the consequences in their own way in their own time. Larry
I would suggest staying out of it. It's not your business.
No.
If it comes up later, and you're asked, "didn't you know?," explain that you puzzled over the best course, and made what you thought was the best decision out of respect and consideration for your friend.
Meanwhile, let's all wish the young couple well. They are the two that matter here. It's a big, big step, and a tough one to make at 19. Fraught with danger, and anger, on all sides, and nothing to sustain them but their love for one another. But for the lucky, the blessed, as some of us know, that is more than enough.
Here's hoping they make it!
If it comes up later, and you're asked, "didn't you know?," explain that you puzzled over the best course, and made what you thought was the best decision out of respect and consideration for your friend.
Meanwhile, let's all wish the young couple well. They are the two that matter here. It's a big, big step, and a tough one to make at 19. Fraught with danger, and anger, on all sides, and nothing to sustain them but their love for one another. But for the lucky, the blessed, as some of us know, that is more than enough.
Here's hoping they make it!
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Lonegle57
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guessing what the young man wanted to talk about and reality may be two different things
7shooter
Member
I'd stay out of it.
OTOH my wife and I got married at 19 and 54 years later are still married although statistics suggest that teenage marriages don't last.
What strikes me Colby..(And don't take it wrong),,,You "THOUGHT" the girl had married her boyfriend...
Don't you know, one way or the other?..
What makes you suspect they are married?
As other before me have given their opinion..mine too is.... Let sleeping dogs lay...
WuzzFuzz
No .
Negative, Ghost Rider...
Alton
Member
I had a family member that was 13 when she ran off with her 14 year old boyfriend to West Texas to run a ranch. They finally got married and their family's finally accepted/forgave them. I think they where married for 75 plus years before one of them passed. They where my Great Aunt and Uncle. Love is love, no use trying to change or interfere.
. . . .Why??????
keith44spl
Member
No..........
It takes all of my waking hour to tend to my own business,
no time left to mind other folks affairs
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It takes all of my waking hour to tend to my own business,
no time left to mind other folks affairs
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Tom Kent
US Veteran
If the couple did, in fact, get married it may cause some rift or hard feelings within the two families. Those families will look for someone to blame for these feelings. If an outsider has entered the picture with "news" of the event they will quickly become the target of one or both families anger. If you value yourself,stay out of it.
Not. Your. Business.
So, NO.
See, that was easy.
So, NO.
See, that was easy.
washerman
Member
No...You said you "thought" therefore you don't know
Lady Smith
Member
They are 19yo, they do what they want to do, don't mind, it's not your business.
Grayfox
US Veteran
Aw Hell NO!
Never pass up a good opportunity to shut up.
Never pass up a good opportunity to shut up.
