sjs, IMHO, your base pins looks fine to me (and I have a few of single action guns). I too have several that require me to really 'force' (hate to use that word) them into position, but I do, indeed force them in. Those guns have functioned fine for years. Yes, the cross-pin latch on mine are often too tight and need disassembly and cleaning. Two pieces of info for you:
1) I have "polished-out" some of my pins (back in the old days when I was motivated). I just put them in my drill press and held some abrasive paper around them while they spun. I never worry about removing the 'finish' because the finish gets removed by using the gun (IMHO).
2) For $9.95 plus shipping, you can buy another (exact same) pin from
Taylors Firearms when they are back in stock:
#21 - U0400021 Cylinder Pin With Two Notches For Manual Safety
$9.25
SKU: PAR/U0400021
Stock: Out of stock
p.s. To show that base/cyl pins are often VERY tight, Brownells (used to sell and maybe still does?) offer a 'base pin removal tool' to get those pesky pins out without scratching your valuable Colts... I made my own by taking a stiff piece of metal (out of an old feeler guage) and simply ground out the little curve that is necessary to grip the grooves at the outside of the pin.
Hope this helps,
J.