It's easier to pull the slide back on your full size pistol because the mass of the slide is heavier, the travel longer and the spring pressure is set accordingly to provide proper function.
Mini pistols must have heavier springs because the slides are lighter, the travel shorter and so is the service life of the spring. This is the cost of having something handier. Reducing the spring pressure will increase slide velocity, causing damage to the pistol frame and possibly feed failures.
Yeah, you can screw with spring rates, but remember you're potentially betting lives on the pistol working properly. Those springs are that heavy because they have to be. Remember: There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch.
Spring rates, or the operational needs of a gun related to spring rates, have a fairly broad range within which they will work. New springs are at the upper range of stiffness because they will relax with use and still work fine. Putting aftermarket recoil assemblies designed to perform properly in your gun is unlikely to cost you your life. Put some rounds through the gun after installing any aftermarket parts. If the gun works, it works.