I'll go with the words of two LEO instructors who were there during the heyday of the .357/125 load, one of whom I had the pleasure of training with.
As they reminisced about the difficulty of getting everyone qualified with that load, I asked if it was as hard on the K-frames as I'd always heard.
Without elaboration, both replied "Yes it was."
As the Original Poster of this thread a month ago,
this sums up some of what I was trying to get across.
Smith & Wesson's mistake was not researching and
developing a Colt-sized Official Police frame (the basis
for the Python) rather than just slightly adjusting the
somewhat puny K-frame for the higher pressures.
Smith was wed to the K- and N-frames. Eventually
by 1982 or so, the L-frame came about. But it aped
the very popular Python in not only size but configuration.
I wished Smith had left off the heavy lug but even so,
eventually Smith got to where it really needed to go.
Today, the Smith 686 SSR reflects more what was really
needed in 1955. To compete back in the 1980s, Ruger
came up with the very fine GP-100. But it had that darn
lug. The Match Champion was designed to compete with
the SSR concept.
As to the quote above, I think an awful lot of shooters
be they weekend plinkers or police officers are just not
ready for the blast and whump of the .357 in any frame
size. So perhaps back then the Model 19 just wasn't
what any average, I stress average, officer was ready for.
One other thing, however, is stocks/grip design. Be it the
Smith Model 19 of those long ago days or the Python or
the later Model 586, and even today, revolver makers
often don't seem to give enough thought to the stocks/grips.
I know hand sizes and preferences abound, but in the world
of the automatic, manufacturers seem to try and cater to
the various demands of grip preferences.