I understand the OP's concern with changing demographics, I'm going thru much the same thing. That said, carry the gun you shoot best. The piece is only as good as the guy/girl behind it. You live in an area where the seasons change. As the weather warms in spring and summer, it's harder to dress around a larger weapon. I have an M&P 9c and like it fine, but I found it too bulky for summer carry. I prefer the M&P Shield for EDC year round. I've got one in 9mm and more recently, one in 45acp. Either fill the bill IMHO.