( The OP didn't mention extremely short bbls, or a need for minimal recoil, so I will discount those considerations.)
Back in the day, I used 185 +P , and Flying Ashtrays. Because back then they were best.
In recent decades, there are more excellent 230 jhps than you can shake a stick towrds. Commonality of poi with 230fmj tips the scales for one of them, unless you have a specific reason for somthing else.
If I'm not concerned with shooting thru car windshields, I'd probably use accuracy in my gun as deciding factor thru the top 10 or so premium 230jhp, instead of the slight differences in their terminal performance.
For that matter, I tested WWB 230 from 4.25 bbl using one of Jim Higginbotham's test protocols. It met his penetration goals ( deeper than I consider mandatory) , and expanded to .75 .
ps - Never say never, but I have yet to see a 230 jhp .45acp that was UNacceptable from a 4.25in or longer bbl.
( I think the bear load for .45acp comment was tongue in cheek, so I'll refrain.)