Ungrateful

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Last Saturday while I was out, a kid in a pickup ran out of gas and coasted in to our driveway he knocked on the door and asked my wife if we had some gas, she gave him a 2.5 gallon container which he promised to use in his tank then bring to the gas station, about 1/2 mile,
and return full.
So he put the gas in his truck, drove away with the container and never came back.
So the next guy it happens to can make the walk to the station and beg a can off of them.
Steve W.
 
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Look at it this way- you're only out a can and a couple gallons of gas. It could have been worse nowadays, a woman alone answering the door to some strange guy at night...

Something to think about.
 
I've helped a lot of people out, over time, but the OP's
story puts a bad taste in the mouth. I don't know if I'd change my mind on one incident, but my next gas can would be an awful cheao one.
TACC1
 
Today I was taking my wife to a dentist's appointment. His office was located in a strip mall, and we were just on time. As I turned into the mall parking lot, there was a woman standing by her car with the flashers on, and she waved at us, like she was trying to flag us down. My wife asked me if I was going to see if I could help her, and I said I would go back after I got her into the dentist, since if I stopped now she would be late.

I went back, and there was a guy talking to her (his car was parked close to hers.) I rolled down my window, and asked if she got the help she needed. She said, "My husband beat me up, and I'm out of gas and have no money...I'm just trying to get enough to make it to Texarkana."

The other guy said he had given her $20, but he didn't have a gas can, and wanted to know if I could take her to a gas station, since he needed to get to work. I said I would, since there was a gas station about a block away. The woman said no, she wouldn't leave her car...she asked me if I had any money that she could have. (At this point, I was mentally going "hmmm...") The other guy started trying to tell her that she would need to bring some gas to the car, when a police car drove by. He slowed down and gave us the once over, but didn't stop. When the woman saw the police officer, she jumped in her car, fired it up, and drove off....with the other guy's $20, of course. He had the most amazing look on his face!

Man, what people won't do...and it makes you hesitate to help anyone.
 
I kind of remember my own impoverished past. I remember one night I ran out of gas less than a mile from home. As embarrassing as it was I knocked at the guys door and explained my problem. I was out of gas and wanted to leave my car in his drive if I could. I was going home to get our lawnmower gas and would be back as soon as I could. The old guy would hear nothing of it. He insisted I pour his can of gas in my tank. And he wouldn't take money for the fuel. At a loss, I then asked if I could borrow his fuel can so I could refill it the next day. He agreed to that, but reluctantly. You had better believe I returned it the following day, full to the brim.

When I got home, I told my dad what had happened. He wanted to pour our gas into the guys can and take it back right then. He only backed off when I pointed out it was almost 9:00, too late for that.

In the few years following, I saw the guy from time to time (small town.) Every time I repeated my thanks for him helping me. He always said he'd help anyone who seemed to be sincere.

I now live in a fairly large metropolitan area. But one of my hobbies over the last few years has been "highway hunting". I occupy the slow lane. I'm one of those geezers! :D You can have the fast lanes, and I don't speed often. But I do look for fuel cans along side the road. Weekends seem to be prime time for folks to run out.

You can't beg a can from a filling station. They will gladly sell you one for about $7, and you can fill it with $3.50 a gallon fuel. The interesting part is the fool then pours the can in his/her tank, then drives off leaving the can sit along the interstate. I'm the guy who stops to clean up the mess alongside the road. If I can get off safely, the can comes home with me. If the can looks damaged, I drive on.

I once was a rich guy. I had 6 or 7 of the big 5 gallon cans. But then my son bought a motorhome. That was almost 6 years ago. He got it in his neighborhood, and there was serious question if it had enough fuel to go the 2 or 3 blocks to his driveway. So dad swung into action. I had a fuel card from Jeep for buying a new one. I filled all the cans I had and gave them to him, full. At least there was no question that he had adequate fuel. And it didn't make it to half tank! And he kept my precious fuel cans!

But I've restocked, one at a time. I've got at least a dozen of them. But with fuel as high as it is, I'll only give away an empty can. I don't have the the generosity or the faith in my neighbors that the old guy had back in the 1960s. I might reconsider if the guy knocking impressed me as being worthy. You know, clean cut, not filthy or looking like a druggie, or driving a BMW! :D
 
I figure I can either afford to be generous or I can't, so I either "grant a gift" (without expectation of return) or I don't.

I keep a five gallon gas can for my lawnmower at the house. I live at the top of a fairly long and steep hill road. It is not that unusual for someone to make it to the top of my hill road, but then have trouble going any further. From time to time folks run out of gas just as they get to my address. If they're polite in asking, and I can afford to be generous (which is usually so), I've let them have a couple of gallons of my lawnmower gas without any expectation of return or money. If they're either rude or "suspicious", they get a polite but very straight "Sorry, I can't help you" – my next step is fully dependent on how they react to that.
 
Stopped to fill up after a late night at the office. Guy who reminded me of the bald-headed guy form Iron Chef on food-tv channel pulls up and tells me he got locked out of an office building nearby, where he left his wallet and ID, and needs to fill up to get back to Long Island. I suggested he ask the gas station guys for some help. He laid some more story on me, and the BS meter instead of quivering went into full sweep. I told him the local PD was just up the way, and they would surely want to help him. He refused. When fill up was done, he asked one more time and I told him he seemed like a scam to me and I wasn't going to help him. He told me that if I wasn't going to help him, I should hurry up and get out of his way so he could talk to someone else at the pumps. I smiled and pulled away knowing that my little guardian angel looked out for me again, and made sure he didn't follow me out of the lot and back home... NJ doesn't allow carry unless you are part of the glitterati or have the pull to get one. Lots of wolves out there, my friends.
 
society today isn't what it used to be. Back in the day, there was trust and help……………this has be replaced with greed and deception.
 
My little fun in the 49th...........

I'll help someone in clear need. These other scammers, not a chance. They are plentiful up here in the Last Frontier. They think they can scam you because it is cold here. As they approach me with the "I'm in need" look, I usually beat them to the punch and ask them if they got 5 bucks and a cigarette I can "borrow". They usually get real confused and walk away as their BS(bravo sierra) line was discombobulated. Sorry, but I get a good chuckle every time I do it. :)
 
A very nice local kid, now in college, used to mow our 25 acre lawn. He used an old John Deere riding mower, his Dad worked on relentlessly to help the kid make a few bucks during summer. He mowed our lawns, a few neighbor estates, a couple small family cemetery plots, that kind of thing. He was not a professional landscaper or anything like that.

It was about 99 degrees in the shade that day, he came up to the shop and told me he was out of gas. I took him over to a shed and gave him one of those 5 gallon highway pick up jugs Dick Burg was talkin' about. Yeah, I'm an old scrounger too!

He went up on the corner where we have a 4 way intersection, set down the jug next to the riding mower and was so hot and sweaty lookin', I said "go down to the house and get a drink, your too overheated to finish up now". The boy went down as directed, cooled off awhile. He was a neighbors boy afterall, I didn't want him down with the heat.

Sure as hell, he was back at the shop in short order with a puzzeled look on his face, telling me the gas can was gone. In the distance I swear I saw Dick Burg driving down the road in his dammned old jeep, laughing his *** off! Screaming "I'm king I'm King, I'm King of the Kentucky Gas Cartel".

Cheers;
Lefty
 
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Tonight I and theresa ended up at IHOP. I didnt reconise any of the few people in there but the waitress`s. We went to pay and found someone had already paid our bill! The waitress said they had swore her to secretcy. They had left long before us I understand. Only had that happen a couple times in my life. Guess it`s our turn to play it forward!
I wouldnt change my usual actions because of what some skunk did or didnt do!
 
Last Saturday while I was out, a kid in a pickup ran out of gas and coasted in to our driveway he knocked on the door and asked my wife if we had some gas, she gave him a 2.5 gallon container which he promised to use in his tank then bring to the gas station, about 1/2 mile,
and return full.
So he put the gas in his truck, drove away with the container and never came back.
So the next guy it happens to can make the walk to the station and beg a can off of them.
Steve W.

Unfortunately this is not a new happening with people. I remember working in my Dad's gas station as a kid & every time Dad "loaned out" a gas can it seemed to never be returned. That was back in the 1980's...
 
I was on a plane, probably Norfolk, VA, to one of the NYC airports, back in the early '70s. Guy next to me had a hardluck story, so I lent him $20 and gave him my address to mail the loan back.

He didn't. (But he provided me with a lesson in my youth!;))

But I think it is not about the guys asking us for favors. It's about us and how we react, knowing that it might be a scam. I agree with what Feral and ASA335 say.:)
 
Back in the early 70s, I was a young and stupid - umm, make that "naive" - high school kid. Summer,and I'm cutting the yard. Guy walks up, points to his car in the street, and tells me he is out of gas. Could I loan him some, and he'd fill up the can and bring it back. So I go get him the almost-full five-gallon can, he pours it in his tank and drives off.

Then it hit me. Worried about how I was gonna tell Daddy, and what he'd do to me. Wasn't worried about the gas. 20 cents a gallon, so it was less than a buck. But minimum was 2 dollars. That 7 dollar gas can was half a day's pay.

'Bout a hour later, that guy came and knocked on the door, with a full can of gas and another "thank you".

I wouldn't do it, now, though.
 
I've been scammed a time or two myself and because of that I'm sure that when asked again, I overlooked someone truly in need. Sad when there's little trust left in the world.
 
I think we've all been hustled a time or two. Hard luck stories, true or false, usually appeal to the kindness present in all of us. I never worried about it either, I still think it all comes back to you and most of the time makes you a better person for having done somone a kindness. But listen, don't expect to get the gas can back or the loan repayed. If that troubles you, keep on walking while they're still talking.

Cheers;
Lefty
 
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I now live in a fairly large metropolitan area. But one of my hobbies over the last few years has been "highway hunting". I occupy the slow lane. The interesting part is the fool then pours the can in his/her tank, then drives off leaving the can sit along the interstate. I'm the guy who stops to clean up the mess alongside the road. If I can get off safely, the can comes home with me. If the can looks damaged, I drive on.

I am 39 and do the same thing, it drives my wife nuts.:D
 

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