amazingflapjack
US Veteran
larry 213
I'm glad you are here to share your experiences. A few things that occur to me as I read your account: you were young, you were probably in better than average shape-"I went back to working construction," you were a newly wed, and therefor had a hightened sence of protectiveness for your new bride, and probably were aware of X-husbands emotional problems. You had "right" on your side; don't ever think that that isn't a factor, especially with some personality types-you were acting to save someone other than your self, this all helps supply the adreneline needed to "do the right thing," and it just wasn't in the "cards" for you to die that day. This last one is often mentioned by folks close to situations like this, but not given the weight it should in my view. Sometimes that seems the only explanation we can come up with to why someone survived. And lastly, you should be glad his aim, or intent to kill, wasn't better or more sincere than it was. Flapjack
I'm glad you are here to share your experiences. A few things that occur to me as I read your account: you were young, you were probably in better than average shape-"I went back to working construction," you were a newly wed, and therefor had a hightened sence of protectiveness for your new bride, and probably were aware of X-husbands emotional problems. You had "right" on your side; don't ever think that that isn't a factor, especially with some personality types-you were acting to save someone other than your self, this all helps supply the adreneline needed to "do the right thing," and it just wasn't in the "cards" for you to die that day. This last one is often mentioned by folks close to situations like this, but not given the weight it should in my view. Sometimes that seems the only explanation we can come up with to why someone survived. And lastly, you should be glad his aim, or intent to kill, wasn't better or more sincere than it was. Flapjack