They both get $500 to put in each of their kids 529 accounts plus a bit for them.
Bath towel or VCR . . .
Carton of cigarettes and a deck of cards.
I don't have any children, but I have two nephews. One of them is still in college and the other one is an independent adult. Shipping has always been an issue with the older one's presents in the past because I was giving him a few boxes of shells for one of his guns. But now he determined not to risk shooting it. It would be easy to send checks, but I want to show that I did something special for them. So this year each of them will be getting a Christmas card stuffed with a stack of $2 bills in a significant amount. I figured NOBODY else in the family would be doing something like that.