NFrameFred
Member
You've asked for advice and everyone means well, but having been an instructor for years I know that it comes down to the individual as to what is "big enough" verses "too heavy" when it comes to folks your age.
I unfortunately had to turn a little lady down for a permit class one time years ago when it became very apparent she just did not have the hand strength and coordination to handle even a small rimfire revolver.
It depends on the health and strength of the individual and a lot of good advice has been proffered but only you can know what you can handle and what you can't - an L frame may be just fine, may be too big and heavy.
I unfortunately had to turn a little lady down for a permit class one time years ago when it became very apparent she just did not have the hand strength and coordination to handle even a small rimfire revolver.
It depends on the health and strength of the individual and a lot of good advice has been proffered but only you can know what you can handle and what you can't - an L frame may be just fine, may be too big and heavy.