What was the happiest period of your life?

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At what point in your life were you the happiest? For me it had to be my mid to late teens about age 14 through 18. I worked after school and either had a motor cycle or a car with plenty of money and all the freedom in the world. I think if I could relive any period of my life it would be those years. Plenty of cute girls to date, still fit enough to play several sports, and rock & roll was coming of age.

Life has been generally good, but never quite so good as those years. That would have been the late 1950's and the early 1960's, when Elvis was king, TV was fuzzy Black and White, flat tops were the hair cut of the day, and traffic jams were still pretty rare.
 
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The '40's & 50's. Gas was cheap [25 cents]. A new Ford pickup cost me $1988 out the door with a $596 trade in. The rent on a small cabin was $45 bucks a month. I was making $100 bucks a week. Hamburger was 29 cents a pound.Model 92 Winchesters were going from 25 to 50 bucks each at the local gun show. Hell, I bought my 95 Winchester 35 in great shape for 45 bucks. Gosh, I was single then & had money to invest. Bought some stocks & made out very well.Korea was over & I spent 9 years the the National Guard. I served my country better than Bill C. ever did. I married in 1960 & things never looked as good ever again. My 3 kids all do much better than I ever did but I believe I had more fun.
 
My nine-year third and final marriage, and the three and a half years we dated but didn't live together before that. We were both sober alcoholics. We really believed we were made for each other. It was the happiest, most contented time of both our lives until leukemia took her. In January she will have been dead twenty years. I've lived alone since she left us, knowing I'd never find another soulmate like her.

The thing I miss the most is the laughter. It was a hilarious marriage. :)

Sorry, been thinking about her a lot the last couple of days.
 
late teens early 20 s fast cars lots of women plenty of good times dont regreat nothin. then meat the love of my life we had tons of fun now that we have gottin older and had a kid. now were just in the food chain or maybe thats how i feel. but still happy just wish i was young again
 
Maybe right now. I got remarried about 4 years ago to a great gal and we have the kind of love I thought was only in fairy tales. We just got back from the Bahamas and are already planning our next vacation, and my construction business is doing very well with a pretty bright future. Everything was so terrible about 7 years ago any decent life would seem very happy to me.
 
Through my early 20s. Motorcycles, women, all the fun stuff of the 70s, and real honest to God friends that I had known from a small kid that were as wild as me. You will never know a man as well as the man you knew as a kid. They are all dead and gone, mostly from trying to live that life for too long.
 
I've had many high points in my life...the birth of my son, a great wife...but the best time in my life was the four years in the navy. I traveled the world and saw all manner of things from different cultures. Worked on million dollar airplanes and gained confidence in myself as the time passed. I basically grew up while there which prepared me for life in general.
 
Met my wife when I was a senior, she was a junior in HS, different schools. Married 42 years as of Aug. 19. She is a saint. Two great kids. I have worked extremely hard my entire life and now close to calling it quits at age 62. Best times were when we were first married - not rich but made ok money. Had the cars, motorcycles, partied, had fun. Then Christ took control of my life and everything changed. Best stretch was my 30+ years in education. Started an at risk program at a high school and helped many kids get through life. Just helped parents open a brand new Christian Classical School where I am the headmaster. I see more and more that my life has not been my own but I have been called to help others.
 
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I was a child of the 50's and 60's, had great parents that raised me right....left home when I was 17.
Worked a profession for 35 years that due to my career path required moving 11 times to different areas of the country. I retired in 08, then worked for another 6 years as a security contractor. During these 41 years I met all kinds of people, in all kinds of situations; good, bad and in between.
To answer the OP question: My present station in life is my happiest period, I survived a hazardous vocation and all of the pitfalls that accompanied that. I have a great wife who is also a retired LEO(so she is on the same page as I am on most things), we have kids and grandkids who live here locally, and we are spending time with them.
My parents are still alive - in their 90's, live next door and now I spend time with them & care for them, repaying them a fraction of what I owe. I am healthy, my wife and kids and grand kids are healthy - which is a blessing and should NEVER be taken for granted. I have my hobbies to keep me active and am fortunate to have some solid friends who I shoot with, ride MC's with, dive with and in general enjoy our time together.
Probably for the first time in my life I have a freedom that I have never known before....I go to bed when I want and get up when I get up....and pretty much do what I want when I want.
I had some lively times in years past, but live for today, because tomorrow is promised to nobody.
 
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Besides the special moments of the birth of my sons, seeing my older marry, the birth of his son two years ago- I'd have to say the happiest extended period was my junior year in college, that was 1978.

I did great in school, had an amazing summer job on either end of that year, a wonderful girlfriend, a great dog, a thoroughly crappy motorcycle (1968 HD XLCH) that kept breaking down but was fun as anything the majority of the time. I was in great shape-hit my max of 325lb on the bench press ahahaha. Great friends (two I still stay in touch with) and overall life was grand.
 
My nine-year third and final marriage, and the three and a half years we dated but didn't live together before that. We were both sober alcoholics. We really believed we were made for each other. It was the happiest, most contented time of both our lives until leukemia took her. In January she will have been dead twenty years. I've lived alone since she left us, knowing I'd never find another soulmate like her.

The thing I miss the most is the laughter. It was a hilarious marriage. :)

Sorry, been thinking about her a lot the last couple of days.


Please don't be sorry, not ever. Here we are a bunch of men for the most part who again for the most part have never met and you say something that makes me realize that else feels the same as I do about my wife.
She is my second, but she is my true love. We went through the cancer ordeal after 1 year of marriage and she begged me to move on if she didn't pull through. I told her no.
I knew I could never hold another, never love another, never laugh the same. She is my everything and I thank God she made it. Every day aditional with her is special.
I am sorry your wife did not make it.
 
When my girls were home and little. From 6 to 10 years old. My wife was younger and healthier. I was young and skinny, owned my own business, and had the world by the tail. Now I am older and unemployed. My wife's heath is slipping. The kids moved away of course. And at present we are at our oldest's house holding her hand as she slowly dies of cancer at 39 years old.
 
Happiest time of my life. That's an interesting subject.

I guess it would have to be the time between my 16 birthday and my 25 year. On my16th birthday an "older" woman (she was 17) changed my status from boy to man.:) I was a gear head and that was the era of the muscle cars and serious street racing. I was fully involved in that and owned and built hopped up cars for that endeavor. The Albany NY area was a hot bed of that illegal street racing.:D

I got out of high school which I downright hated and started working a good paying job (union building construction) which gave a single guy like me a very good income to support my car and drink/girl habit., The drinking age was 18 and the birth control pill just hit the drugstores, the rock and roll music was GREAT, the factories were selling hot cars right out of their showroom. (I had a couple)

To be honest how I survived that era I really do not understand but it was a great time.

Of course since then I have been happily married for 45 years and a couple years ago my doctor declared that after 5 years since the cancer was cut out of me I was now a survivor.

Like I said in the beginning it was an interesting time!
 

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