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I hope the link works but if not - "As Good As it Gets" and look for "noodle salad".
I think most would say it's wrong to draw conclusions about someone's character because they were tight on money. That Dad must be lazy or not so bright because the family had an older car, not the latest niceties or unable to travel for a vacation. Or take a vacation. And no summer home. Would be poor form to make those assumptions.
Alot of those same people have no problem assuming a well off person must have lied and cheated, screwed over their best friend, etc just to get ahead. Or that they tripped in to the money and absent such luck lacked any talent or ability to make it on their own.
FWIW I think the reason is more closely related to resentment than envy.
I think most would say it's wrong to draw conclusions about someone's character because they were tight on money. That Dad must be lazy or not so bright because the family had an older car, not the latest niceties or unable to travel for a vacation. Or take a vacation. And no summer home. Would be poor form to make those assumptions.
Alot of those same people have no problem assuming a well off person must have lied and cheated, screwed over their best friend, etc just to get ahead. Or that they tripped in to the money and absent such luck lacked any talent or ability to make it on their own.
FWIW I think the reason is more closely related to resentment than envy.