I had a conversation with a woman several weeks ago who wanted some help in getting connected with a CCW class. Both she and her husband are interested in getting their CPLs (Michigan nomenclature for Concealed Pistol License). Since she has had no experience with firearms, I offered to meet her at a local range for some elementary instruction prior to her class. After arranging a time, I also asked a buddy to meet us there with his 4" K frame .22. (My friend had never fired a gun).
Since the lady had no bad habits and didn't "know it all", she picked up fundamentals rapidly and was soon shooting the K frame .22 double-action @ the 7 yard line like a champ. (We went through the safety fundamentals first, of course). I'd brought along a number of guns for her to actually shoot, so we moved next to my 15-3, loaded with factory wadcutters. Same gun size and feel as the the .22, but with a little more "umph". No problem!
Next she tried my 3" 60-4, with the same ammo. The size was a better fit for her hand, and she immediately appreciated the difference. Next, I had her try the Airweight 642, still with the wadcutter stuff. The increase in recoil with the alloy frame was enough to make her appreciate the steel frame guns. We moved on to the Ruger SP101. She liked the Smith trigger better. (So do I, though I dearly love my SP). Finally, I had her shoot my Kahr P9 with 115 ball. I really thought she'd like that platform, but it didn't feel right for her...at least not in this first outing.
I'm not sure what she'll ultimately choose for a carry gun, but I had great fun watching a new shooter as she experienced various platforms. She clearly enjoyed herself and at least has some basis for forming her own opinions about what she'll do. I'm kind of an old fogey, but I remain convinced that it's almost never wrong to start a new shooter out on a double-action revolver. A person can certainly move from there to the self-loader if they choose (and most probably will), but I think it's more difficult to go the other way. Also, the simpler manual of arms (point and pull) is arguably less prone to problems should a shooter need to protect themselves.
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