Rastoff
US Veteran
This is a common mistake when buying a gun for a woman. Often people think that a small gun will be better because they have small hands. This is rarely the case. In fact, more often than not, the women I've worked, with preferred the larger guns.I bought the gun for CCW but also, for my lady. She has small hands and the shield is a perfect fit for her.
I have larger than average hands, but like the small back strap on my M&P 45. My wife's hands are much smaller than mine, but she prefers the large back strap. Surprising, huh? It just goes to show that you never know until they manipulate and fire the gun.
(edited for brevity)Guess what she bought, after the Salesman at the gunstore got thru w/ her: A new Beretta 92. ...Being of slight build, she can't even control the 92 w/ one hand, much less 2...
...she could not charge the pistol after numerous attempts...
...she could not decock the pistol to safe it and had to wait till Hubby got home to do so. And then he had to read the manual to do so... This is a recipe for utter disaster, IMHO.
I agree with you that this could be disastrous.
The Beretta 92 series has to have the easiest slide to operate on the market. It's 9mm and full sized so, the recoil spring is light. Further, I'm stunned that she couldn't operate the safety/decocker. Seriously? That switch is so easy to drop, many people do it accidentally. Yes, this is not the gun for her.
The grip on the Beretta 92 is rather large. Even men sometimes have difficulty with it. I own one and have qualified expert with it in the military. It's a great gun, but not for everyone.
DeadWhiteGoose,
Have your lady handle a full size 1911. I know this may not be the most popular on this forum, but you might be surprised at her reaction. Many women find the grip very comfortable.