When making the gun safe while in your home, can you explain to me which direction is "safe" from AD. Just wondering whether the floor, walls or ceiling are the best? Since I live on the second floor, I am guessing the residents of the first floor would most likely prefer that I not point toward the floor when choosing!!!![]()
I was faced with that issue when I transferred to DC in the second floor condo I rented. (I refer to those years as the "dark age".) If you've got Class IIIa body armor it's an obvious choice to use as a safe direction - once you've taken it off.

However, a cheap and simple solution is a variation on the military theme of using a 55 gallon drum half filled with sand and placed at a 45 degree angle that can be used as a safe back stop while clearing the weapon.
A 30 or 55 gallon drum is serious overkill for pistol purposes, and a 5 gallon bucket filled about 2/3rds full of sand is more than enough.
I cut a 4" hole in the center of the lid, and then covered that by gluing a 6" circle of neoprene cut from a mouse pad. It keeps the sand in and the cat out.
I've never had an AD, but if I had, the sand would have stopped the bullet and the only potential issue for the neighbors would have been the loud noise.
A 5 gallon bucket, lid and a bag of sand from Lowe's will cost you about $10.