What I was looking for was somebody that maybe had a "pet" load specifically for the Remington 125 gr.
Most of my pistol re-loading has been with 9mm and I have developed good loads in a variety of bullets for it. I have not had success with 38 loads. I get frustratingly inconsistent results.
I, and later my son, was a national level service rifle and hi-power competitor (Camp Perry, National Police Olympics etc) and I have re-loaded many thousands of rounds of 223 (10,000 rds a year for several years). When Jimmy Knox (JLK bullets) was developing heavy bullets for the 223 for long range competition, I was among the folks he sent samples to for testing. I know something about precision rifle loads.
Even so, I regularly read threads asking basic questions about 223 loads and bullets and, if I have something I think may be helpful, reply, even if the questions have been asked and answered before. I figure that's the purpose of the forums, to share knowledge. If I'm not interested in a particular thread, I just skip it, I'm not offended by it.
Please understand, I'm not trying to pick a fight, I thought I was asking a simple question.
Best, Joe