I believe you should get back on facebook and leave this gun talk to the adults...
Congratulations on winning the argument by going straight to personal insults. You are a master debater.
Yeah, what cryptiq said.
What scares me though is if someone was to break in, find my gun, and still be in the house when I get home...
Put it in the safe and it will be less of a problem. If you are NOT AT HOME, then your HOME DEFENSE GUN is a little useless isn't it? And if it IS just lying around and not properly secured what you are worried about can happen. So why not, oh I don't know, take steps to prevent it happening. If you have your CCW then you can drop it in the safe after checking your house and retrieve your home defense gun. It also doesn't need to be a big safe elsewhere in the house. You get some pretty good quality rapid access safes that you can secure wherever you want your HD gun to live.
Putting it on your bedside table at night will remove the needing to get it and the chance of someone getting it before you do.
As for the .410 being the "ultimate house round", uuuh No. Not really.
Look at the pictures I posted above when 15 rounds of .36 out of a 12 gauge didn't spread to "make up for inaccuracies". The rifled barrel on a pistol will help spread the shot around I will admit, but it will still not be enough to make it a useful room broom. On the flip side to that though, it can cause you to miss your target with some of the rounds and that is not a good thing. What will those pellets hit? And if they missed they did not help in stopping the attack did they?
Yes this is a discussion about the .22 LR as a defense round, and most people have said it isn't a good option. Read the thread. While the .22 can kill people and has, relying on it is not the smartest thing in the world if you have any other option. Suggesting the .410, the smallest commercially available shotgun cartridge and the shotgun equivalent of a .22 simply because we are discussing the .22 as your argument is silly.
The soft round shot of the shotgun cartridges is not the best performing bullets in the world. Yes they can also kill, yes Wild Bill dropped a guy at 75 yards with a single .36 round ball to the chest. They still don't have the same potential as a well designed hollow point, nor will the rounds reach the stated velocity out of a short barrel, with a cylinder gap thrown in.
The excessive recoil in a handgun is not worth it IMHO. Get a better designed gun, practice with it. Get good at it and don't try use "trick" gear to compensate for not training.
KBK
Personally for my HD gun I use my daily CCW. It is a Glock 26. Also not what I'd consider the best gun for the job, but it is what I have available. -local laws and stuff-. It simply sits on my hip every waking hour, except when I'm in the shower. If it is not on my hip it is secured in a lock box on my bedside table. There is no problem with someone finding it because it is right at hand, or under my direct control all the time.
The problem of them finding my other guns is reduced because they are locked in a big assed safe. Yes they will be able to find them, getting hold of them will require the use of big power tools and lots of time. (or explosives).
KBK