BTW Fastbolt, thanks for the advice earlier in the year. Bought a 5906TSW, which is a great gun. However, the grip is too large for my small paws, and my wife's. Will sell it shortly.
Have you tried switching the arched grip for the straight one (from a 4006)? The straight one worked noticeably better for me than the standard arched grip. I made the switch on my issued 5903 and it felt better. Of course, I also switched out the spurred hammer for a spurless hammer (6906 hammer installed on the longer 59XX's stirrup) because I'm one of those folks who can experience hammer bite, even on a 3rd gen Smith.
Also, we switched a handful of the arched grips for the straight ones for some of our shooters with smaller hands and they were well received.
Naturally, it won't make the grip frame any "smaller", but it can sometimes help making by way of making it a bit shorter (front-to-back) for the bottom of the hand/palm by eliminating the arched "swell" for some folks.
Glad to hear the 3913TSW works well for you. I always thought the 3913 was their best effort in a compact. I rather liked the 3906, too, and always wished they'd made an all-stainless compact (which would have been named a 3916, if they'd followed their model numbering for size & frame/slide material. (Unlike how they named their 6906, which would seem to have been better named a 6913, or at least a 6903, for the compact size with a stainless slide and alloy frame. Go figure. It occasionally seemed, at least to me, that they sometimes chose their model numbering by dart board.

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Quick question... What does the "NL" stand for?
It basically means "No Logo", meaning the frame has the same angled profile (at the front of the dustcover) as the LadySmith model, but it lacks the "LadySmith" logo.