Haha, you guys are kind of funny, but I want to make a couple things clear.
I am not "lying awake at night" over the marks on the finish. This is also why I have no interest (whatsoever) in a bead blasting or full restoration.
You really are not getting the full idea of what it looks like-- I am far more skilled at shooting handguns than I am at shooting PICTURES of handguns!
And really...
Handguns are not art?!
Uhh, okay. ...
Point taken. Beauty in the eye of the beholder, and all that.
I can remember back when I actually put some emphasis on whether I "liked" a gun's appearance. I was a young man, and it was before I'd had much experience with what duty & off-duty guns started to quickly look like after being subjected to the rigors of normal, everyday carry and use.
Every see one of those commercials where new parents are super careful with their first newborn, making sure everything is pristine and super clean, but then get over their inexperience and become more practical? I especially liked the one where the mom handed her baby to the car mechanic to hold for a moment (the greasy/oil hands were a bit over the top, though, but funny and illustrative of the point being made in a joking manner

).
Once I saw blued, stainless and nickel handguns acquire the inevitable signs of normal wear & tear (and abuse, granted) in LE use, I got over my treating them like the "first newborn".
You're not wrong about those adjustable sights, though, but if you think they're "unsightly" (pun intended), you ought to try and get parts for them. Why the hell anyone thought it was a good idea to machine the slides to only use a weirdly shaped proprietary sight base design is one of those inner mysteries known only to S&W.
I've had some revolvers bead-blasted, and the resulting appearance can be nice, aesthetically speaking, but it can still experience the scars, marks & tattoo's as the original passivated surface if subjected to the same rigors.
I have a 70's vintage Colt Commander (Steel, Combat model) which started life blued. Thinking it would be better to have a less "delicate" finish, I had it done in electroless nickel. Pretty, although in later years, afte a LOT of shooting and carry usage, the finish wore thin in many spots and some chipping appeared. Anyway, one day I discovered that a loose recoil, spring had rested against the side of the slide, and I had a series of noticeable marks left in the finish.

They were eventually polished "subdued" by heavy holster wear.
You ought to see what my various duty & off-duty guns have ended up looking like over the years.
I don't say any of the this to imply that everyone ought to feel this way, or shouldn't maintain their prized firearms in as pristine a manner as possible, or not consider them synonymous with "modern art" (guns have appeared in some museums as such), but just to illustrate how some of us have had the "shine" taken off our firearms due to them having been relegated to more or less just normal "working equipment" over time.
Kind of like having safe full of bulldozers and other construction equipment.