You can set the COL anywhere you're comfortable between 1.100 and your 1.169 . . . as long as your pistol is happy to feed that length.
Then check your powder manufacturer's published TEST data, and see what COL and charge range they used. If yours is shorter, start lower and work up. If yours is longer, you can expect to be able to go over the published TEST max.
As you work up evaluate recoil, ejection, and accuracy. If you have a chrono to compare MVs, great. Also good is to fire some factory rounds in the same range session to compare.
FWIW, with Berrys 115gr PRNs I use 4.6gr of HP38 at a COL of 1.100 that gives an MV of 1080fps from a 3.75" barrel.