Those aren't car payments, they are mortgages, and on something that depreciates exponentially with time, where at least real estate appreciates. What makes them worse is that many times, the owner can't make the payments after a period and has to sell or trade the vehicle, which is typically worth less than the balance owed. The owner is "upside down" and whatever he buys he has to finance for more than it is worth when he buys it, making him further in the hole. I don't know how the average Joe can just default on the loan and start over, that's even worse.
I refuse to buy a new vehicle for quite a few reasons
1- They aren't as well built as an older version of the same car/truck
2- They are exorbitantly priced
3- They are more difficult or impossible for an owner to work on themselves due to all the electronics and proprietary engineering
4- They have features I do not want, but can't be had without them and you have to pay for them anyway
5- the list could go on for miles....
Manufacturers seem to refuse to give the driver a basic car with no frills. They don't for a specific reason: those frills don't cost them a lot to put on the car, but they charge outrageously for them to increase their profits. Something as simple as a switch cluster for power windows might cost them a few bucks, but to replace one you get charged hundreds of dollars. Same deal for when you buy the car new.
I saw an article talking about how car parts places like AutoZone, Advance, O'Reilly's, etc. are suffering economic woes because of the complexity of newer vehicles that aren't user-repairable. Their business is based on a decreasing amount of older cars and fewer owners who can or will work on them.
Our newest car is a 2018 and thankfully it is reliable (Toyota) and paid for. My truck (also Toyota} is a 2011 and paid for, and we have a third car ('99 Toyota) that we use as an extra. If I were ever to sell one of these (highly unlikely), I would not buy anything newer than them, so what's the point? I'd rather spend the money that would otherwise go into new car payments into keeping these cars repaired and in good condition. Should one get wrecked, I'd buy something 10+ years old and repair whatever it needed rather than get a new one.