When My live in GF of 20 years started filling My closet I moved the stuff to Her closet. Then came the argument of who had too much stuff. Not being married has it's advantages and She promptly was told that either her overstock of clothes leave or they all leave with Her. We actually parted a few times so the common law in CO wouldn't kick in. Plus She had a lot more funds than I did. I thought You might have learned from the previous two to get the rules down first. Oh well. Best of luck to You.