Welcome to the forum. 39 yrs. old ,,you're just a youngin'.
Since I've retired ,I've worked part time in a LGS for the past 10+ years. It's amazing the number of customers and sale people that are 'self proclaimed' experts.
The 38 spl. isn't and wouldn't be my first choice for a home defense or carry firearm.
Having said that, my brother, my father, my son-in-law, myself , and several other people I know have and carry either 642's or 442's or other J frames in 38 spl..
The old 158 lead round nose probably wasn't a very good self defense round. But I think the new Gold Dot & Critical Defense ammo out there is leaps and bounds ahead or the old LRN.
Do I have and carry a 38 spl. ? Yes, sometimes I do.
Is there better calibers out there ? Sometimes & for somethings , Yes, I think so.
Like I often tell people , you can hit a deer in the tail with a elephant gun and he'll run away. Put a .22 behind his ear and he'll drop like a rock.
A 38 spl. model 10 S&W is a darn good firearm,, and I don't think you are undergunned with one..
That's MY self proclaimed expert opinion. That and buck & a half will get you a cup of coffee.
