I have an SD9VE, along with a couple of Springfield striker fired pistols.
As I'm sure you're aware, the SD9VE is a budget pistol. Mine does not feed reliably with hollow points. FMJ rounds are fine. With JHP's, every once in a while, a round will fail to go into battery. Not what you want in a self defense gun!
Soooooo... I load it with powerball ammo. These are basically hollow points with polymer inserts in the hollow point. They feed like FMJ ammo and are *supposed* to expand like hollow points.
You need to invest some $$ at the range by running a couple boxes of your choice of self defense ammo to make sure it feeds reliably in your gun.