Home Defense. Miscellaneous thoughts.

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Your house whispers to you and it will tell you who is in the house and where they are, provided you listen. This is an important tactic or advantage that, I believe, should carry more weight in threat assessment.

If you listen, you'll recognize that family members each have an individual and identifiable walking style and sound pattern. Your daughter or wife may kick off high heels. My older sons would open the front door and close it without making a serious attempt to do it silently. A second or two after the door closes, I'd hear a key being inserted into the lock (lock keyed on both sides) and the tumblers turning. An intruder would not be locking the door. The normal sequence of sounds would be absent. I could also discern the difference in sound signatures between the front and side door locks even though they were identical and keyed alike. The side door leads to basement stairs and has an echo not present at the front door.

I also got to recognize the sound signature of each of my sons' automobiles as they arrived on the block. Believe it or not, our beloved golden retriever also knew their automobiles and would not go on alert.

My six-feet-two, twin sons would not tiptoe through the house like they were negotiating a minefield. They took long strides and they would take two stairs at a time ascending to their respective bedrooms. I'd hear water run, toilets flush, size 14 shoes or sneakers crashing to the floor, first, one, eventually, the other. The dining room chandelier rattled a bit when one of my sons was in his bedroom, directly above the dining room. The glass and china within the dining room hutch rattled if someone walked in front of it. These were the normal sounds of a home with older teens in residence.

On the contrary, an intruder who enters an occupied home produces sounds that don't correspond to that of any family members. Or, he's not producing the accompanying sounds you normally expect. If the floor is squeaky, he'll walk more slowly, test his steps, trying not to make noise. I squeaky step might momentarily stop him dead in his tracks as he listens to whether or not he has alerted an occupant.

An intruder is already on high alert and he knows he may have a confrontation with you. You, on the other hand, are at a serious disadvantage because you may be asleep and we all need a few seconds to clear the fog and to get both brain halves functioning. Those first few seconds are especially dangerous because of the increased possibility of reacting too soon and possibly confronting a family member. It is for this reason that handguns should be stored a bit out of reach rather than in the nightstand.

In my neighborhood, a report of a nocturnal prowler to 911 will almost certainly put a police helicopter overhead, sometimes with a search beam peering into back yards. While rare, when it happens, I don't go outside to investigate where I would be at a serious tactical and legal disadvantage to a prowler and I also risk being misidentified by the police.

Do you live in Heavenlyville, where nothing bad ever happens, peoples' faces are screwed into perpetual smiles, nobody locks their doors and police handguns are rusted to their holsters? An unlocked door or open window gives an intruder a significant advantage over you. The really brazen ones have been known to make your nightstand their first stop, to help insure you're not armed. Once they're standing over you---game over.

Don't assume that an intruder won't attempt entry through a second story window. They do it all the time. And, if you leave your extension ladder in the yard or driveway, a gentlemanly intruder just might leave a "thank you" note for you. As previously said, if my chandelier were to rattle without the accompanying "son-sounds," I would automatically go into Condition Orange.

We always keep a key hidden on the property, and not under the front doormat. My sons were warned often and frequently to never attempt entry through a window if they didn't have their keys, something they knew could prompt an armed response. This is but one example. It is necessary to educate family members to reduce the possibility of mistaken identity situations or perhaps unwittingly interfering with your response.

Your home security should be layered. If an intruder has gained entry, it means your perimeter security was faulty. Any home can be retrofitted with a wireless security system at about the equivalent cost of one new handgun. My system has battery backup so pulling the electric meter out of the meter pan will not disarm it. Rear sliding doors are rather easily defeated. Our rear door is alarmed and has a removable bar in the door track.

In most areas of the country, you may not use deadly force to prevent a property crime. In suburban areas, thieves often enter garden sheds and back yards, looking for generators, bikes, lawn mowers, etc. In my area, police often respond in under two minutes. I'll always call the police rather than attempt to do their job for them, provided I have that option. I won't be charged with murder to save a bicycle.

Lastly, you must know your house and your safe lanes of fire. You cannot shoot toward occupied rooms. You cannot draw fire toward an occupied room. Handgun bullets will go through sheetrock like it's not there. In high-density suburban areas, your bullet can leave your home and enter your neighbor's home.

We use our sight to navigate through our daily lives. People deprived of sight have a much more highly developed sense of sound as both a navigational and situational tool. It's really just a matter of understanding the interrelationship of sounds. If the door was opened late at night, why didn't you hear it lock?

But, what if you hear a key inserted into the lock but the lock isn't yielding? It could indeed be an intruder but, as happened to my neighbor's daughter, it was her drunken next-door neighbor arriving late at night and who mistook her house for his. Frustrated, he then broke a window to gain entry. Once inside, the lush realized he was in the wrong house and fled, but not before leaving his wallet on the kitchen counter, as was his custom in HIS house.

It was agreed by all parties that there was no willful intent to commit a crime. The now-sober neighbor paid for the damage and apologized. No charges were filed. This neighbor was indeed fortunate that his inability to identify his house in a row of identical houses didn't cost him his life. Food for thought.
 
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I live alone and always lock my door.

If anybody manages to sneak in, I'll hear them when they trip over a piece of computer equipment or a box of books and break an arm or leg.

I don't have to worry about "friendlies". If somebody's in here and they're not me, they're not a friendly. They're a reactive target.
 
I won't be charged with murder to save a bicycle.
A case is developing here that involves homicide of a trespasser. A wealthy business man living in a replica castle on a 30 acre estate killed a man from a nearby trailer park, that he observed from the kitchen window, walking down his driveway.

In our CC class, this situation was covered as an impermissible use of force by first creating the confrontation that then requires deadly force. Except maybe if your very wealthy.

Excerpt from Greenville Online:

According to the coroner's report, the homeowner and his girlfriend were in the kitchen about 8:30 a.m. Saturday when they saw Whitman walking on their driveway.

The homeowner reportedly went outside and told the man that he needed to leave the property. Whitman refused, saying he was "just going for a walk," the report said.

That's when the homeowner said he went inside to get his shotgun and fired two warning shots.

Whitman "turned around but acted like he was not leaving," according to the report.

As his girlfriend called 911, the homeowner walked back outside with his shotgun to escort Whitman off his property, the report said.

Whitman walked toward him, the report said, and they began circling each other. Whitman pulled out a pocket knife, came toward the homeowner, and the homeowner fired multiple shots from approximately 6 feet away, the report said.
 
Living alone, I know all the creeks and rattles my house makes. My ex had to have white noise to sleep. It drove me crazy because it drowned out everything else. I much prefer sleeping in silence.

As for the law, the state cops are about 15 minutes away. I would not go looking for a confrontation, but after calling 911, I'd have to be ready just in case

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it is so true. My house/home talks to me as well... I can hear.. feel who is in my home and can virtually feel where they are in the house. My locks/alarms and dogs are 1, 2 in my security plan...next is the firearms.. then the phone(s).
 
I find I can generally discern if there are intruders in my house by cycling the action of my cheap AK-47 and yelling: "Who the F is that out there??" If someone yells back: "It's me dad!" I just go back to sleep. If I hear running, I investigate further. I guess I'm just not a house whisperer.
 
Small house, old neighborhood, both vehicles over ten years old. Nothing that bespeaks of any windfall to be had. Steel doors, deadbolt locks, house and garage alarmed. If that's not enough, guess I'll have to move. I'd hate to take on another house note at this point in my life. Besides, where can you go these days that's 100% safe? Mr. Bad Guy has a long reach.
 
Sleep upstairs, don't provide easy access to upstairs entry, keep the area around the perimeter of the house clear (don't provide cover), have as much clear space around your house as possible so anyone approaching the house is doing it out in the open and have a dog. Or several dogs.

Exterior cameras are also a deterrent.
 
Having 3 mini-doxies and a 112 lb Boxer, a leaf falling outside can trigger a ruckus! Having said that, the Boxer is free to roam the house anytime. She is very protective and intimidating. (yes she just had to go on a diet!) If an intruder gets past her, I have the Judge handy and the wife has her Ladysmith .38 at hand. We live well off the road and almost smack on the banks of the Rio Grande. We have never had a problem with 2 legged critters, but ya never know.
 
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In short, I think a good dog or two is a pretty good first line of defense. Some profound barking in the middle of the night will wake most people, usually before the door is kicked in.
 
Update: No prosecution of castle owner.

Today the DA, citing Castle Law, decided not to prosecute the homeowner who left his home to try and force a trespasser from his yard at gunpoint and killed him when he allegedly produced a knife.
Seems like the DA extended the protection beyond the laws definition:
"This bill authorizes the lawful use of deadly force under certain circumstances against an intruder or attacker in a person's dwelling, residence, or occupied vehicle."

Solicitor: Altamont shooting death justified under Castle Doctrine - Greenville Journal


A case is developing here that involves homicide of a trespasser. A wealthy business man living in a replica castle on a 30 acre estate killed a man from a nearby trailer park, that he observed from the kitchen window, walking down his driveway.

In our CC class, this situation was covered as an impermissible use of force by first creating the confrontation that then requires deadly force. Except maybe if your very wealthy.

Excerpt from Greenville Online:

According to the coroner's report, the homeowner and his girlfriend were in the kitchen about 8:30 a.m. Saturday when they saw Whitman walking on their driveway.

The homeowner reportedly went outside and told the man that he needed to leave the property. Whitman refused, saying he was "just going for a walk," the report said.

That's when the homeowner said he went inside to get his shotgun and fired two warning shots.

Whitman "turned around but acted like he was not leaving," according to the report.

As his girlfriend called 911, the homeowner walked back outside with his shotgun to escort Whitman off his property, the report said.

Whitman walked toward him, the report said, and they began circling each other. Whitman pulled out a pocket knife, came toward the homeowner, and the homeowner fired multiple shots from approximately 6 feet away, the report said.
 
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Well, funny I should run onto this thread today. At about midnight last night, here in my hometown, an 80 year old man had his home invaded by three perpetrators. Well, this is West Vurginia. I started a separate thread on this story, and will update it as new releases are made. Check out the two local tv stations reporting, and the comments at the end of the story.

http://smith-wessonforum.com/concea...defends-self-home-invasion.html#post139052241
 
Well, funny I should run onto this thread today. At about midnight last night, here in my hometown, an 80 year old man had his home invaded by three perpetrators.
A home invasion is one thing, but I hope people don't see this as a license to shoot people walking across their lawn. :eek:
 
No, if you read the story or watch the newscast, you'll see that the female came to the older gentleman's door, asked to use the phone. He started to let her in, two guys dressed in dark clothes rushed in, with what appeared to be a handgun. The old gentleman fired three rounds. They were in his home, trying to rob him at what he believed was gunpoint. Turned out it was one of those realistic looking pellet or BB guns.

Sorry, bigwheelzip, I didn't mean to confuse my local story with your story about the wealthy guy in his "castle". Our local guy was a completely different thing, and I agree with you about the apparent inappropriateness of using deadly force against someone walking across your lawn.
 
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Thankfully, I live in a decent area so I can't see spending the money for an alarm system. It's just me and my wife so I know if somebody is in the house at night it is not with an invitation. I bought a couple of driveway alert alarms with a motion detector and an alarm receiver which I have in the bedroom. If anyone walks up on my front porch or my back deck I know about it. I also have three portable alarms that I place at each door and the central hallway to warn any intruder that they have entered the wrong house and it would be better to leave immediately. I hope it will never be necessary to point a loaded gun at another person, or pull the trigger to defend my family.
 
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