OK, now we're getting somewhere. This is a common mistake in terminology between Extract and Eject. No biggie, I get it now.
There are three basic malfunctions; Type I, II and III:
A Type I is a click rather than a bang. Two possible causes; nothing in the chamber or a dud round. Fix is to tap on the magazine and rack the slide.
A Type II is a Failure to Eject or a Stovepipe. It looks like this:
I believe this is your problem. It can certainly
can be caused by limp wristing.
A Type III is a Failure to Extract which causes a double feed. It happens when the round is not extracted from the chamber and then next round tries to feed behind it. It looks like this:
This is not what you describe so, I don't think it's your issue.
Now, based on what you've clarified, I think your crushed shell was just an anomaly and more likely was caused at the ammo manufacturer. I have seen that before both from a damaged chamber and from the manufacturer. I'd still like to see a pic of your chamber.
A note on terminology: (not trying to be a smart alec)
Extract - This is the action of drawing the case out of the chamber. It is accomplished by the Extractor grabbing the case rim and pulling it out of the chamber.
This case is being extracted:
Eject - This is the action of Ejecting the case from the gun through the port in the slide. The extractor pulls the case straight back out of the chamber. The head of the case then hits the Ejector as the slide reaches the back of its travel.
This case is being ejected: