I started out with the Speer manual....
And it did me fine. But the loads are tailored for S&W bullets, which are difficult to find nowadays. I still use it, but haven't found Speer anything in years. The Lyman manual has the best 'general selection' of components based on type of bullet construction and weight.
I'd recommend reading the 'how to' section of a good reloading manual and then decide what components I needed and start working on getting a stock of bullets, powder, primers and brass.
While I'm here I might as well give you a shopping list:
Reloading list (I keep it CHEAP and I keep it BASIC)
Place to set up. I used to have my press mounted on a bench in the garage, but I mounted it to a board and clamp the works onto a table with C clamps so I can work inside.
Press You can prime the cases on the press, but I use a separate Lee hand squeezer type primer tool. The Lee tool uses different shell holders from the press, but they are cheap.
Dies and shellholders for each caliber.
loading blocks, two are good (I have a store bought one and a couple I made for bigger shells with a dril press)
Case lube and pad. (I use paper towels folded up)
A scale. I have a small one from Frankford Arsenal. Also Lee scoops are cheap. Sometimes I use them alone, sometimes in conjunction with the scale. I also have a trickler to fine adjust but fingers or a Lee scoop works. Sometime I weight every load, sometimes every 8 or 10. I also have a Lee Balance Beam (cheap) for checking.
An RCBS Uniflow powder measure is adjustable and works great. Check what you throw on on the scale. I tare a case, load it with powder and put it back on thescale to check it. The Uniflow has some different parts, rotors, nozzles etc. for rifle and pistol. Get what you need.
A powder funnel.
Anybody can probably use a bullet puller. I got tired of the inerta puller and got the Hornady cam lock thing to fit on my press but I haven't tried it yet.
Caliper
Case prep (deburr, chamfer mouth) Maybe some primer pockets toosls if needed, I just have a little Lee pocket cleaner)
Trim tools - I use the Lees, they are very inexpensive and I chuck it into my drill press.
Case cleaning: I used to clean cases in a dish pan with Dawn detergent, but I got a Lyman vibrator and a jug of corncob media.. Sometimes I add a little metal polish to the media.