The only thing I would be concerned about with the low recoil loads would be whether or not they would cycle in my semi-auto if I had one. I'd be sure to test them before I would stock up on them.
I understand why folks like the low recoil stuff but try it before you buy a bunch of it if you use an autoloader. I have seen it fail to function in a number of autoloading shotguns though it seems to work OK in others. It works fine in my Benelli M4. Also, while not really a concern for home defense, low recoil buck and slugs are both markedly inferior in penetrating automobile sheet metal.