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This has gone off the rails.
Mea Culpa. In an effort to spark a (maybe) thoughtful discussion on THE IDEA THAT WE NEED NOT READILY APPEAR TO BE THE STUPID OVER THE TOP EXTREMISTS WE’RE OFTEN PAINTED TO BE I offered a simple view that can apply from anything to gun control, to one’s personal spiritual views, to politics to how you talk to your wife or comport yourself on your job/in your work place – stop and consider a particular course of action before stepping on the gas and driving over a cliff. I will concede it was wishful thinking. Reasoned discussion in this day and time is officially dead, civilization is toast, we’re all doomed and it’s useless to try fight the good fight the right way – because in our hubris we’re ALL right, even though anyone with two functioning brain cells has to know that’s not an improbability but an impossibility.
My fault. I attempted to appeal to reasonable rational discussion – not primitive ‘lizard brain’ reaction that we’re all susceptible to from time to time. I’ve been guilty of it – venting to an emotional reaction and engaging keyboard (or mouth) before brain – but I really try to avoid it the longer I live. Didn’t think my original post involved any of that so I make no apology for expressing an observation and posing a rhetorical question.
I posited some time ago in another thread that although most of us rarely ever get to meet face to face, the longer we interact on this forum the more we get to ‘know’ each other. That idea, I readily admit has its limitations, caveats, and pitfalls . . . but I’m more careful these days to strive to not give a mistaken impression of myself or be “that guy” that you wouldn’t care to meet in person. We all have our bad days, dislikes, and hot button issues. But frankly I’m finding out more and more which folks here I’d probably avoid in social situations. And I surmise they likely couldn’t care any less. Fine by me – such is life. The world seems to be increasingly infected with such.
I’ve never been one to run from a fight but have learned to avoid one when possible and it’s rare that I’m pushed to seek one. In most cases, win or lose, it’s just not worth it whatever the outcome. I could go on, but as I stated in the original post it never was my intention to provoke in-fighting or tread on any toes; certainly didn’t want to contribute to the lowering of the bar of discourse here on the forum by inviting name calling and deliberate mischaracterization of the topic. Those with the weakest arguments have to resort to those kinds of things and twist what is said from its original intent, if they even bother to read it or have the capacity to comprehend it. Anyone who they perceive doesn’t believe what they believe and marches in lockstep with them is the enemy.
As the originator of the thread I’ll ask the mods to close it before it gets any more contentious. To those who understand . . . my apologies. To those who don’t . . .
This topic is nothing new, and there's nothing wrong with a little infighting and debate. It happens in relationships, at the workplace, with politicians, etc....
I and others fully comprehend your point of view. We just disagree with it. Simply put, you think we should make concessions to appease those who are "allegedly" on the fence. You think we can win the hearts and minds of those who are neutral by not pursuing things you and the antigun side see as taboo or scary. I completely disagree with your point of view. IMHO, that has been done in the past, and it has failed. These people will be antigun regardless, and the mainstream media will spin, twist, and lie to make whatever firearms and accessories we use, even the ones you personally approve of, to be deadly, scary, and not "needed." Several members have made this very point, but you seem to keep reiterating that we have comprehension issues.
WE WILL ALWAYS APPEAR TO BE THE STUPID OVER THE TOP EXTREMISTS WE’RE OFTEN PAINTED BECAUSE THAT'S HOW THE MEDIA WILL PROTRAY US TO THOSE WHO KNOW LITTLE ABOUT GUNS NO MATTER WHAT.
We don't need to walk on eggshells or worry about appeances like you suggest. The one and only thing we can do as gun owners that will change hearts and minds is to get more people to own guns. Period. They aren't going to care about gun ownership, nor are they going to be one issue voters who go against the Democrat party over gun legislation until they too have something to lose. They will only care when it's their, their significant other, their children, friends, etc. rights that are being taken away. For example, during the pandemic, thousands of first-time gun owners on the left and right purchased guns. Before they owned guns, they probably wouldn't have cared if someone else's guns were banned. Now that it will affect them, they will care.
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