Pet Peeve

My number one peeve is screaming kids in restaurants. Their parents have 3 choices.

1. Shut the damn kid up.

2. Take the kid outside until he shuts up.

3. Just sit there and do nothing.

Guess which option is usually chosen.

A few years ago we took a couple of out-of-state friends to a nice restaurant where a kid began to scream uncontrollably. We could not talk to each other or even hear ourselves think. We asked the owner of the restaurant to speak to the parents. He did, and guess what happened. The parents chose option 3 and it was the worst time at a restaurant we've ever had. Some people have no class and that characteristic seems to pass right on to their kids. I swore from that time on I'd bring a roll of duct tape and tear off a length of it and give it to whoever dragged the kid to the restaurant instead of hiring a baby sitter...

John
 
Clearly you’ve never dined with young kids . . .

My number one peeve is screaming kids in restaurants. Their parents have 3 choices.

1. Shut the damn kid up.

2. Take the kid outside until he shuts up.

3. Just sit there and do nothing.

Guess which option is usually chosen.

A few years ago we took a couple of out-of-state friends to a nice restaurant where a kid began to scream uncontrollably. We could not talk to each other or even hear ourselves think. We asked the owner of the restaurant to speak to the parents. He did, and guess what happened. The parents chose option 3 and it was the worst time at a restaurant we've ever had. Some people have no class and that characteristic seems to pass right on to their kids. I swore from that time on I'd bring a roll of duct tape and tear off a length of it and give it to whoever dragged the kid to the restaurant instead of hiring a baby sitter...

John
 
Because of that very scenario, a law was passed in my area that mandates you clean off the car IF you are on the road driving. People still disobey the law.

Some people also refuse to wear a mask and WalMart won't kick you out because they don't want a fight. Some people pass school busses with red lights. Some people speed thru school zones. Yada, yada, yada.

Its just a symptom of the I don't care attitude, I'm better than you, I'm in a hurry.

Its the lack of respect that rubs me the wrong way. But nevertheless I just have a beer and forgetaboutit.

I forget who originally said it, but it was over 200 years ago. Laws only work if there is an expectation of punishment.
 
I live in the wrong century.

When my wife and I are in a sitdown restaurant, I pull out and hold her chair, then help her get seated. I open doors for her, and help her with her coat. When she leaves from or returns to the table, I stand. It's my public acknowledgement of my respect and gratitude for 47 years, some good, some very hard.

Last Christmas an older gentleman came over as we were leaving and quietly said it was nice to see that some remember.
 
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There are some things (actually a lot) that just rub me the wrong way. We just had a rather heavy snowfall. It's been two days and people still haven't cleaned the snow from the roofs and hoods of their cars. How much effort does it take?


You're walking into a building and the person in front of you lets the door slam in your face. I was taught to hold the door for the person behind you if they are close.



You're talking to someone and they are chewing gum like a cow chewing a cud. Generally this is a younger type person. You just want to shove it down their throat.


Getting old is not for the faint of heart.
Rant off

I could never agree with you less: When I wish to pass thru a door ; GET OUT OF THE WAY. I will never rub up against another male as if we were playing b ball at a Wesson party., the same as I will never walk in front of a car with the motor running.
 
I believe John Locke was first. Deterrence theory has been regularly debunked over the years . . .

If I knew I wasn't going to get in trouble, there are a LOT of things I would do that I don't now. So, yeah, it kinda does work.

Then of course there are those hardened criminals or those who believe in better living through chemistry who don't think, so, sure, it isn't universal.
 
Around here if you don't clean the snow off your car, you will get stopped.

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Around here the cops would be really busy, then the people would get up in arms, their would be a bunch of hollering at the next council meeting and either the chief of police would go or some of the city council.

Its not what it looks like your honor, I was hauling this to disposal.

A couple days ago there was a 5 ft snow barrier between the lanes inmost parts of town. If your following some one with snow on their car and it gets on your windshield YOU were way to close on bad roads.
 
You won't have as many peeves, irritated stomachs, colons and headaches if you watch less of the National TV News. Most of the stuff that gets to you, you can do little about.
As for everyday politeness like holding doors for people, the thanks and smiles that you usually get makes the effort worth while. Besides that. it is the right thing to do.
 
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